Your wishlist is nothing outlandish. Sugarbabies get paid 10-20k/month or more for sometimes just an innocent date.

Crazy world we live in.

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Duuuude, seriously. I can see how you could assume this but I've done research these past 2 days on the gifting aspect of camming and my wishlist isn't as appauling as some of them that I saw.

Hard to blame someone for trying with this inflation and layoffs; if you were trying.

Bwahaha I mean if you want to sure. But no, I tried posting this in the moment and forgot a tldr so it was deleted from my main account.

You posted this because you needed your rent paid right?

> Yes I looked at your linktree link. I lost a few brain cells in the process.

Fuck if I know. I just read my messages and saw I said I had to pee. Women don't poop so I couldn't have! 😂

Sure you were peeing and not pooping?

Absolutely get checked out, but don't freak out too bad. I've had similar episodes throughout my life - all hemorrhoids.

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You got it together enough to cancel, many people would have just taken the financial hit rather than admit their mistake. Don't give yourself too little credit.

So the username checks out?

If it’s “for the boys” then it’s probably pretty chill :) If there’s no other red flags perhaps your friend knows you guys both lack execution and a little nudge would bring y’all joy.

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I wouldn't pay that much for a gym, but I would recommend going and getting a membership somewhere,it's really nice to expose yourself to people without any pressure to talk outside of like setting up amenities if you want them. The whole time I can go in and out with noise canceling headphones on and not say a word to someone if I like. It's definitely a comfortable place for me now

Just...just don't ever send any money to someone stranger you've met online, especially on a dating app. It's always scammers.

Think of it this way as well. if someone doesn't have the money to come see you, it's very likely you're going to financially support that person in a relatuonship.

Heck, my cousin met a foreign guy at a bar. Live together for a while, got a kid. She only kicked him out after a decade because he couldn't hold down a job, and he wouldn't financially support her but would rather put that money in his home back in his home country.

Money isn't everything...still

Why are you dating someone who can’t afford gas to meet you? No judgement, Just wondering.

He probabaly is dead by now, rip stranger

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absolutely not

he also might live in a cubicle in India with 2000 Tinder accounts residing an hour away from every major city on earth.

if I were scamming someone and they expressed a willingness to pay to see me I would transcend the lie and show up because nobody has ever been willing to pay to date me before.

So the real question: Did they like it?

I'm really sorry you spiraled, but glad they let you cancel! Can I ask, what are you anxious about? I used to be very anxious about going to the gym as well but now it's my safe haven. So maybe reddit can help with the concerns you have?

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