Put your name under the batteries of the remote and claim his claim is invalid.

You only get one life, and if possible you should be happy in it. Do what you and your wife want to do. Work stress is a killer... if you'd stayed it would probably be you having a breakdown or whatever. Good luck I hope things work out for you both.

Chin up, you will have another chance. When it comes to regret like this, you learn from it, attempt to adjust accordingly, and don’t forget what it taught you. Don’t dwell upon it and beat yourself up.

Gut says Nigerian scammer.

Listen take this one as a practice run for the day you feel ready to say 'yes'. If you were ready today you would have said yes. Be compassionate with yourself hug

Marry her.

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You have to fight him now for the rights to the house.

It's ok. You're young, you'll turn down others you like equally as much because of anxiety still.

Maybe see a therapist.

No. No ragrets

I’ve self sabotaged myself before and I still regret that shit to this day. For any of you who struggle to be completely honest with yourself or those unsure about what you want, please be shameless and put away your pride. You don’t want to wonder, “what if…” everyday, wishing you could just go back and slap yourself. Please let yourself live in the moment.

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Is she making a crochet lopunny or something?

How the funky can people be this bored to write up such trash from both points of view lol

First you sabotaged yourself in the moment and now you are continuing that sabotage by focusing on regret. I suspect you have also built this person up in your mind, increasing your regret. Because, you only spent a few minutes with the guy, so you really have no idea of who or what he is.

The expression "live and learn" exists for a reason. Move on and try to learn how to better deal with your anxiety.

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Don't bother , it's the following of this fantasy https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/zyzfjb/tifu_by_giving_bj_before_a_free_lunch/

that OP himself vehemently bashed .

don't know why he felt obliged to write the sequel though

What about ragrets? Are those ok?

y'all read the girls pov right?😭

I’ll take things that didn’t happen for $500

Not your fault she didn't get paid upfront

Take it. Enjoy it. If you don't need it give it to someone that does and pay the kindness forward. There are plenty of those in need in the world. Never worth begrudging a kindness.

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You have god friends?

My moms gyno told her she was too young when she asked the Dr to feel a lump in her breast. She waited a year to get a second opinion - 15 year battle with cancer she eventually lost. Point is, trust your gut and push for another opinion if you feel something isn’t right.