Nah, that doesn’t make you a sexist. Here’s why…

 

There is virtually NO situation where a female stranger would try to pick up a male stranger this way. 99% of the time, this would be a pure accident. The same cannot be said if the roles were reversed…

 

Sad fact of life.

Life is not that simple.

Sometimes it takes crossing a line to respect it. It doesn't necessarily mean you don't love your partner, or that you weren't sincere in your guilt and desire to make things right. But we, humans, learn through experience. It's the most efficient way to find out how we feel. With that information we can grow as people, and become better. Or, you know, lean into the mistake and become worse people. But the mistake in and of itself does not make you a bad person and it doesn't mean your girlfriend is better off without you. It means you didn't handle the situation correctly. What you decide to do in the future will say much more about who you are.

Trust.

Easy to lose. Hard to earn.

Life isn't that simple. You can love more than one person at a time. He should have been open about what was going on, though.

Just ask on the concert event FB page (or any other social media page). It's super common. There are tons of "anyone know who this cute boy/girl was that I met at X?" Maybe you'll be able to find him.

He should have told his gf he was going to go over there, but wanted her to know, first. They would have had a conversation about it.

That's probably too simplistic. Let them decide what they deserve and what work they're willing to put in to get there.

Omg I read “going down on guy” completely different story.

Bro had me in the first half😭

I was like "damn, did blud get an STD or something?" No, he had a fucking girl the entire time. What a twist

I'm sure she'd love to find out later and potentially from someone else, all after more time and emotional investment.

She deserves to know and it's cruel to not tell her so that she can make a decision about continuing the relationship with all the available information.

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Oh no! I might be perganent

R/wtf

Idk man i would just put my sticker on my kid and say whats yours is mine, and whats mine is mine... And yours :p

Can I be Gregnant?

Once a cheater always a cheater, your current gf needs to move on and find someone better. Ex's are ex's for a reason, you should never go back to them, not even humor a conversation with them.

Not saying he was moral in any way. But if realizing his mistake made him realize his relationship was precious, then he could have kept his mouth shut, invested in the relationship, and moved forward. Will he cheat again, I don’t f’ing know. If he does, he’s shite and deserves the misery. But after this one indiscretion if he doesn’t cheat anymore, she’s no worse for not knowing, he cherishes his relationship, and they carry on. But thinking because you admit guilt that she’s going to appreciate his honesty, you’re seriously overestimating people. If my girlfriend, had a one time screw with a former boyfriend, then realized it was wrong and won’t do it ever again and decides not to tell me, then the problem is solved without me being hurt and suspicious from then on. Of course, if he can’t keep it in his pants after that, he’s shite, and she should move on.

you're a dumbass, but this is the right place, this is a serious tifu alright.

can she also make me a tokki decoration that sounds so cute

Sounds like a good way to go. I wish you the best.

Time for some alone time, and self reflection. See u at the gym, bro...

How is your current relationship “the most important” but clearly wasn’t important enough to leave your ex be . Maybe you need to just be with your ex …….

I would be interested to know what brands a millionaire eats? Were there any neat foods that weren’t in the norm for someone who has a cheaper budget?

I personally would consider this a win. I’m eight months pregnant, so I am nesting and I have been trying to store up food too!