And utterly impossible to earn back.

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I'm honest with those I care about, that's what's right. What's wrong is deceiving those you care for. I think it's you that needs to grow up, my condolences to your loved ones if you see no fault in lying to them.

Just tell him straight!!! If you can, tell him exactly how it went down.

>I will be surprised if you are still in a relationship in a very near future.

Nah. He's got the original Ex lined up and ready to go. And she owes him now!

That's just wrong.

But if he'd told her in advance she might have prevented his booty call. Why set himself up for that disappointment?

And this is how I ended up married to my ex. Run away fast.

As if anyone in this chat doesn’t have some secret that would screw up their life if people found out. It could be theft, physical or emotional abuse, anything against the norm. But we have no problem chastising actions of others without considering our own. So, it is to be assumed that if you were in a great relationship and your “other” made a mistake of having sex with an ex one time, but then realized it was a terrible mistake and the life alternating affect it would have if you found out, you would rather have your perfect relationship end by being told the truth about a single indiscretion. The world is filled with mistakes we all make. This is no habitual cheater. Taking them at their word they didn’t do it before and won’t do it again. Telling on yourself out of guilt, ruining a great relationship when there’s no way of your partner knowing about one indiscretion, means you have a child’s view of what’s right and what’s wrong. Grow up.

You should definitely step away from your partners life. You didn't make a "huge mistake", if your ex didn't force herself on you, you made a choice, you have to live with it.

>What a twist A**hole

FIFY

Meh. Just treat it casual and let it lie. Oops if it comes up.

You really fucked up today, mate.

I'd suggest you suffer from a serious lack of imagination.

However the fact that you didn't tell your partner what you were doing leads me to think that you may just be underselling your planning and forethought in this instance.

tell him that u legally changed his name but don't tell him what u changed it to.

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Maybe his dong was in his bong if it was.long.

It’s totally shit , but hats up to you for coming clean. 80% arsehole 20% good guy. Honesty is best .

It’s horrible to be cheated on / horrible to cheat on. But sometimes things happen for a reason.

I hope you can work it out with you current girlfriend but that may not be what's best for anyone involved. The fact that you went to your ex's place means to me that there is part of you that wants to get back together.
You may not agree but look at what you wrote here. You didn't once mention anything about helping your ex with her problems that were so overwhelming. Instead your whole story was about resolving all the old problems of your former relationship....
You only felt bad when you realized you had to go back home and explain. You need to really think about what you want and who you want that with

This is 100% fabricated. BS. Crap. Karma farmer.

What thought process led you to your choices that culminated in you cheating on your current partner? Because I can’t think of any rational ones.

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I'm predicting that one day, you'll run into him again and you'll be unattached and the time will be right. When that happens, please be sure to update...

Better a picture of your bong than your dong.

Why not just tell him that you were anxious at the time?