Recent comments in /f/tifu

undulatee t1_j2cvsw6 wrote

Reply to comment by whosmansisthis24 in TIFU by reconnecting with my EX girlfriend by Ltislande

That’s some real pain; hoping you’re doing better now.

I’ve been the fucker and the fuckee, neither are fun. Now I just focus on being kind to others as best I can. I’m not good at it. I still lose my temper and say shit I regret, but it feels better than serving myself.

I hear you though, I’m going through it now myself. Trauma never truly leaves you. Wishing you better days and a healthy life.

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allbright1111 t1_j2cvrs9 wrote

Reply to comment by pogiguy2020 in TIFU by going on a Grindr date by FoldPsychological589

I know tons of people in successful relationships and marriages who met via dating apps. I’m still friends with people I met on dating apps and dated in the past. These sites/apps are just a tool for meeting people. Nothing inherently bad about them, but you still need to be smart, just like any social situation with new people.

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Honest-Meeting-9128 t1_j2cv440 wrote

Reply to TIFU by letting a random person flush a toilet by untitled_star

After you checked with your friend I hope you called the cops. Give description, probably some of the neighbours had the same experience, they should be asked and warned of this person. And if you had a glimpse of what he made notes of, you will be a great help.

Sounds like a scout for a robbery. I mean, why would he look at bedroom when he is there for the toilet. In most apartments/houses the bathroom door is different, so it sticks out when you first see it. No way he was just confused where he was going, especially if he is maintainence

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whywouldntyou22 t1_j2cup5f wrote

Reply to TIFU by reconnecting with my EX girlfriend by Ltislande

You “forgot” about your girlfriend like you went on vacation and she was a pair of socks that you left at home. Wtf? How do you magically forget you’re in a committed relationship?? 😭 I hope your girlfriend moves on; she deserves better.

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whywouldntyou22 t1_j2ctwsj wrote

Reply to TIFU by dying my hair bright pink the day before NYE... by Candid_Zebra265

It’ll be fine. It’s just colorful hands. My crown fell off a week before Christmas and I had to get what was left of the tooth pulled, because a new crown wouldn’t have much to cling to. Now I’m home for the holidays, with a missing tooth 🥹 I was worried but no one made a big deal out of it or talked sh*t. Accidents happen all the time, they’ll understand. Hide your hands in photos

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NYX_T_RYX t1_j2crzp6 wrote

Reply to comment by Nondescriptish in TIFU by going on a Grindr date by FoldPsychological589

"hey I'm gonna share my live location, I shouldn't be leaving X bar. When I do leave I'll message you"

Then if you're half way across town without a message, something is obviously up.

Also, a lot of phones now will allow discrete SOS messages - my note 20 records 5s audio, front and rear photos and sends live location to 4 people.

So even if you've not prearranged anything, you can still share your location in a pinch - well worth setting it up, especially for a first meet. Hell forget firsts, I still share my location when I go to regular hook-ups. People change 🤷‍♂️

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Lobasexhusband t1_j2cr50o wrote

Reply to TIFU by accidentally putting nudes on my story. by shittyfemboyalt

Dunno how old you are OP. But things will get better. We’re humans. This is what we do. Regardless of your orientation, sexual preference, etc we’re all humans. We make mistakes and like I’ve seen other day kids can be brutal. Brutal af. But, once you become an adult none of it matters. You’ll be too busy worried about bills, if you have money to spend, and where you’re going in life to think about times like these. Laugh it off, find a good group of supportive people, and fuck the rest of em.

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