Either scoping or placing a camera. The first is really common. OP is going to get robbed, and should file a report.

in the morning i will try to request someone else, and i’ll look into seeing if they have anywhere to anonymously send a complaint or something. i have experiences like this every single time i come in sadly, the healthcare system in alberta is beyond fucked & putting it frankly they do not care about their patients. so it’s hard for me to see the point in coming in again, unless i end up moving somewhere completely different

Sweet fuck I’m sorry that doctor thinks you’re dangerous. Please tell them you want a different doctor ! Do you have anyone there to help you ? Do you need help to find a way to complain? Some hospitals have places to put comment cards for the staff and no one will do anything about this behavior unless we report every instance. Sometimes it takes multiple reports :C

I hope they at least can help with what actually brought you there and you’ll be home eventually.

Please don’t let one incompetent jackass turn you away from healthcare. It gets more important as you get older 😞 Be as firm as you can that you no longer trust this doctor to care for you. They have plenty. You don’t need THAT one.

Whores do look for johns

Barely a fuck-up since they didn't even know you to begin with.

To be awake for happy hour at the early bird breakfast.

Did you end up seeing her for that lunch?

Pffft - you'd all do the same thing in a second. Don't come on here all high, mighty and judgey - say what you want, but 99% of guys in a "committed relationship" would do exactly what this guy's done.

Tinder and Grindr are not the same thing.

How exactly is this a FU?

This! Our wife gets her hair dyed a deep blue regularly, and the salon dye-remover wipes are too harsh on her skin, so we always use our make-up removal wipes to clean her hairline and hands (and our own hands). It's remarkably effective.

THIS RIGHT HERE

Toothpaste has always helped when i have dyed my skin.

I told my 4yo to stop eating butter out of the pot that was on the table...the instant reply of "but you eat it on sandwiches." Had me.

it's also sometimes a way to surprise someone in your neighborhood with some food, probably

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I'm sorry john

I feel for you OP. I'm a 56M, and can still remember times at parties or gigs, or whatever, 30 or 40 years ago, where my anxiety felt like a physical restraint on me. And we'd go our separate ways, some lovely human thinking that she'd read it wrong, that I want interested after all, when in fact I so desperately was.

But the past is the past, so don't beat yourself up over things you can't change. There's always a next time, and one of those next times you'll get it right!

Did you try lemon? Just cut in half and rub your hands with it.

Clearly you weren't ready for a relationship if your ex got you missing her again after you supposedly "moved on". Like yeah, people think of their exs but cheating? That's a real fck up, not by mistake

Tenure track is not a requirement to stay. Who cares if grad school perspective is so wrapped up in the low odds of a competitive TT position that everyone talks as if it's still the holy grail of the profession? It isn't. If society valued education, we'd be paid more. Instead, we're criminally underpaid. It's an unfunny joke.

Also, teaching takes away from learning and personal growth. My job feels like a total waste of my abilities. Maybe I'm just overworked and undersupported, or maybe the profession simply isn't an ivory tower at all. Maybe the Ivies have more support? I wouldn't know.

Anyhow, start working on converting the CV into a resume, and put some applications out there, as you put it: "so as to not have regrets about not trying." I'll be doing the same. The worst answer is complacency.

I can’t remember if it’s rubbing alcohol or peroxide, but one of them works well. I’ve don’t it tons of times so don’t feel bad. It won’t come off your nails though, so paint then a dark color.

I hope she dumps your cheating ass. You suddenly forgot you had a girlfriend? You didn’t. You made a choice. You chose to go to your ex’s house. You chose to stay there too long. You chose to get intimate. You chose to cheat. You are an horrible person and now you want to play the victim.

He's NEVER 'just a friend,' guys.