Recent comments in /f/tifu

deepbluearmadillo t1_isv3b52 wrote

I can tell you that when I vomit, I won’t let ANYONE else be near me. Not even my husband, who I’ve been married to for 20 years. I hate throwing up and I don’t want anyone to see me doing it.

Your friend may have been both miserable from nausea and embarrassed to be vomiting in public. You did all you could do by stopping, supporting them, and asking them if they were okay. If they did not give you feedback, it’s all right. It’s okay that you moved along. That may be what they wanted most.

Don’t beat yourself up. You’re a good human who did all you could to try and help.

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LderG t1_isv07os wrote

Sometimes things are just a big deal in our own mind. To them it's most likely the case that they are not actin, but that actually "nothing happened". So don't worry.

Edit: Also the fact that you cared and stopped and went to see if they are alright is the important part. If they really were feeling awful, they would have probably said something. So it's most likely the opposite and they appreciated it.

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AlmostButNotQuiteTea t1_isuxmog wrote

You shouldn't be using headphones on a construction site.

Everyone has speakers and you just accept it, and have courtesy, that when someone is trying to speak you turn it down if its loud, or if you walk into a room with your speaker going and someone else is already in there, you turn yours down/off.

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Procrastinista_423 t1_isuvubl wrote

They are way more mortified than you are, I bet! And they were trying to act like 'nothing happened' because that's what they want to pretend. In other words, you're good! Just don't sweat this, other than to maybe ask them if they're feeling alright.

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