It’s okay, you are a music teacher, so you could build a lesson around how the soundtracks in porn have changed across the decades

You don't need to "pronounce all sounds of all languages" to make an effort to remember a person's name for fuck's sake. That's the stupidest fucking thing I've ever heard 🙄

I can't speak Macedonian, but when I met my friend Vlatko I didn't say "no that's too hard, we're going to call you Bill" like he was told the first day of school when he moved here.

Also, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that someone knows how to pronounce their own name better than you do.

Self-awareness is a thing you might want to look at evolving some time, mate.

He needs to (pun intended) be straight with her. She doesn’t deserve the lies. Neither does OP. Just to be sure, though, next time OP might want to ask directly.

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Was a torrent lol

It’s the piccolo, technically a flute.

Please say it's the bass flute and not the skin flute. I fucking love the bass flute

Sounds like that guy was looking to cheat, he went on Grindr to hook up and messaged you; you didn't make him cheat by not asking if he was taken. I'd be angry, if anything, in your shoes. But you're not the guilty party here.

was he not in an open relationship?

Okay. Maybe I'm not understanding. Why did you download it if you were just going to just delete it after the ol' chk-CHK-SPLOOF

>You're being defensive and looking too hard for something that's not there.

And honestly, if I may butt in: You're super condenscending.

This type of language may work in r/TwoXChromosomes, but outside that echo chamber people have different views on things. I mean I understand your points, but delivering them like you did really doesn't help

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The Chinese friends I have usually just use the English translation of there name, unfortunately sometimes it does not translate well

Plus pretty much every wrestler that has a ring name.

> I didn't say she can't make a decision.

except you kinda did? you made the decision for her. "because she's more vulnerable, they shouldn't date." like sure you didn't technically say "she can't make a decision." but you certainly implied moral judgement where it isn't justifiable.

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> I said that the healthy decision would be to not engage in that relationship.

you didn't say anything about what would be healthy. you just said they shouldn't do it because she's younger, and therefore more vulnerable. i disagree. they're both adults.

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> It's hard to understand the difference in mindset of someone older when you're not there yet, it's just one of those things that makes sense once you've experienced it yourself.

this comes across as super condescending. sometimes people have different views from you, and it's not as simple as "you'll understand when you're older". i dated a much older man when i was 22, and it turned out fine. i'm older now, and i see no problems with what i did, or what he did. it was a mutual decision between adults, and no one was manipulated or harmed.

I'm so sorry. It sounds like you've had a really rough personal experience. I sincerely hope he honours his promise to you and understands how you feel.

Not on you at all, I think it's fine be angry or disappointed with this person but you have no reason to feel guilty.

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I don't think he would willingly be the person to sleeps with one knowing they are in a relationship. Sometimes people lie. It's not his fault.

Ah yes. White Steve could you get that order sorted. Thanks.

/s

I didn’t even read the entire rant and I can summarize it: both of us are broke AF and we can barely stand each other. You know what would be a great idea? Let’s have not one, but two kids. As an added bonus we can blame them for shit too.

I think it's a pronunciation thing... I've met plenty of people named Joy or Sara because their names were very long and hard to pronounce. Sometimes shortened sometimes changed entirely. African and Indian names I've seen here in Texas.

I'm not gay, but this popped up and was curious so i red it.... "she doesn't know he is bisexual", lemme tell you something dawg.... SHE KNOWS!!!! lol. She mite not want to admit it or talk ab it, but she knows. Congrats on getting laid, btw✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🤪🤪🤪

Not on you. Profile said single. 🤷‍♀️

Absolutely not. She’s already tried that. There’s no compromise here. Period.