Did she just die?

I agree I play "wife" for a lot of my gay friends once they are done with their fun

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u/postedUpOnTheBlock has the evidence and will hopefully vouch for me lol. making this up for reddit would be more cringe than actually doing it

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the women of r/sounding are my heroes

sent in chat, vouch for me that I'm not lying lmao

First.. Exasperated sigh.

Second.

Even some bisexual people don't realize it until later in their lives.

Years and years of people being oppressed or hated for liking their own gender kinda makes that hard or terrifying.

I only recently started exploring my bisexuality, I didn't even think I was bi until I was 27. Didn't do anything with any men until 29. I just turned 30.

Third.. Your text is painful to read.

Ironically (and in a meta kind of way) she did the same thing by comparing this situation to Japan's multiple nuclear misfortunes ;)

Im pretty sure noticeable cellulite can go away if you eat healthy and exercise, not so much when you sit down though (and depends on her age). Honestly having no cellulite can be compared to almost all women from the past, so you’re not wrong.

Uh, shit happens?

Soccer dreams for me. One pretty solid elbow to the face once too, but that's bc I flop over like a whale. Get a king size bed if you can manage it.

You can compare a lot of things to the Holocaust if you think about it, though I don’t advise it

Next time you go out, he’s gonna insist drinks on you

reddit moment

Explain to your gf that you were talking about her and then he made some not-so-nice comments, and in the heat of the moment you told him her salary. That's what happened, right?

I know some people that only ever talk about money, real estate, and their weeks-long vacations, and upcoming weeks-long vacations, and spams pictures of hotel rooms and BnBs that they stay at through email. (No, they don't use social media to do that stuff even though that's what it's made for.) I dislike them but every now and then I meet them only due to obligation. I refuse to participate their game. So far I managed to keep my mouth shut.

I'm also not really sure why you think you've lied to her by not telling her. Did she ask you? Then you haven't lied. Is there any expectation that this is something you shouldn't do? It's not like you cheated, but for some, discussing your finances with us could be a deal breakers. If it's not though, I wouldn't even bother bringing it up.

Another really good point, thank you.

It is- If you're in Polyamorous or ENM relationships. I'm committed to three people.

Yes, they are all aware of each other and have met, more than once.

That's also if it's not a Poly or ENM relationship.

Shits tricky these days. I have 3 partners, one trans-man, two women.

I'm not actively dating at the moment, but when I am, I always start out saying that I'm poly with X partners. Never blindside somebody like OP was.

I feel for OP. This was most definitely NOT their fuck up. It was the other guy all the way.

You could have asked if you cared

Really depends on how your partner feels about money to know how big a TIFU this is. Some people would rather discuss the personal details of their sex life than discuss their personal finances. I'd not mention it unless it comes up. You're not lying if she doesn't ask!

He’s probably not even bisexual but gay and in the closet.

You didn't know. Not your fault. I feel like to save yourself the anguish though it may be best to check in the future.

Don't feel bad. You did nothing wrong.