You were not the person who fucked up here. You had a knowledge gap.

All you can do is try to calm the dogs down. You shouldn't try to separate them. You could hurt one or both dogs.

If anyone fucked up here, it is the person responsible for your dog not being spayed.

ok thanks i will keep that in mind.

my dad wanted to breed her eventually cause she was a pure bred.

this happened to me first thing in the morning... i'm still trying to process it honestly.

Always remember to have cold water handy if you have a dog in heat, from what I've heard. Throw it on the male dog and it should make the knot go down instantly

Yep certainly piss 💯

Wtf did you make me read first thing in the morning

Get the poor girl spayed.

Congrats on being a grandpa

Oh god that's painful. A bunch of years back I almost lost a nipple to a friend's cat, I feel it all over again.

I agree. I’m 22 as is my fiancé, and I felt like this was needy, immature and possibly a first time liking someone.

Also, word of advice, relationships shouldn’t start out a secret

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This read like a 12 year old who’s never been in a relationship. Sorry to be blunt dude, but seems like you gotta do a lot more maturing before taking on a serious relationship

One hand is err disabled

🤣 trust me I'm not happy about it. But to be fair (tobe fairrrrrrrrr) I'm not really sure if we're broken up cuz he's in rehab 🤷🏼‍♀️

Yeah you’re def not lying. Wtf

I saw it with my own eyes. It’s real and makes sense now :(

It's not really. It's impossible to raise everything with a partner, you only talk about the things that are most important to you. If there's absolutely no indication that it's off limits, then why would it be a problem? If it does every come up, then you can apologise, but it probably won't.

Omission is a grey zone. If he can openly hash that out it would be more favorable, I think. Imagine this coming back to her ears, and not from him. Yea, he might not have lied then still, but obviously it was of interest to her cause it is about her.

Tech savvy??? Who the fuck drags and drops into the recycle bin???

Can you not permanent delete on Mac with shift+del like on windows.

Seems like a him-problem. You did nothing wrong, especially when you did not even know.

As a Jew I approve

He called her "little lady" etc.

You defended her to this prick by pointing out that she is more powerful than he is.

Yeah your "little lady" will be pissed, but she'll be more proud that you defended her against this fool. As long as you frame it right.

You bitchslapped him with her hand though.

Better man up if he comes for you.

Oh, time for me to ask how she's doing