Recent comments in /f/tifu

SimpleArmadillo9911 t1_j50xn3i wrote

Life is Grey not black and white.

Alcohol is not about drinking the most or getting drunk it is about finding a “sweet spot” where you can Relax and have fun. Online you can find a blood alcohol table that will tell you based on your physical sex, weight, and number of drinks, where your blood alcohol level. You can even find some that show the effects after a few hours. We all make mistakes, give yourself a break, Learn from it and realize how blessed you are to have such great friends and parents! Good luck my friend!

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blackknight8503 t1_j50si4b wrote

I turned 21 in Iraq and I wanted to make up for lost time when I got back home. I would drink foolishly and I had a lot of nights similar to the one you described. I got tired of behaving that way and gave up drinking. I haven’t drank like that in 16 years and my life and health are infinitely better for it.

If you can’t have a drink or two without turning into Frank the Tank, you need to abstain from alcohol. Binge drinking is unhealthy, especially if you are blacking out and/or getting alcohol poisoning. Your university or community should have organizations to assist you with sobering up. Good luck to you.

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Kanniebaal t1_j50q2e8 wrote

Me: Yeah that's understandable! Well please let me know if you need anything at all, just let me know, I hope you're okay.

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my advice; dont offer this to anyone that is in any kind of need. Offer concrete help like can i do your groceries, cleaning or whatever. Everyone is already offering help but leave the initiative to the other person. Dont do this because you will never be called

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[deleted] t1_j50ofhr wrote

Alcoholics think they’re victims and have a habit of feeling bad for themselves. It’s often rooted in a kind of narcissistic thing. Your behavior has an impact on others, and can even result in the death of others. You sound like someone who should never drink ever, at all, period. Stay away from alcohol, you can not handle it.

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