Recent comments in /f/tifu

The-Gaming-Baboon t1_j5614d5 wrote

I once carpooled over the swizz border and the driver said he had a significant amount of weed in the trunk. However we should not worry as they never pulled him over. Of course they stop us and check our I'd. Luckily they weren't very thorough and let us go. Only for the car to break down after a few minutes.. As we barley managed to coast into the nearest rest stop it started raining. It took close to 2h for the tow truck to arrive, plenty of time for our driver to roll and smoke some. Then we were grated with the stale waiting area of the mechanic's shop where we were told they had no cars available. Ann hour later they find out how good his insurance is and suddenly find a posh suv for us too continue our trip. That is when I was told how to smoke in a rental without getting fined for it. All in all it took 4 to 5h longer than expected and for a portion of the drive I had a rather stoned driver. Though to his credit he rose to every challenge the journey threw at us with an extremely relaxed attitude.

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Bloodiest-Taint t1_j55qrur wrote

Bunch of dipshits on here who act like they’ve never messed up a day in their life and want to downvote you. If you truly think you won’t make the same mistake twice, then try to move on. Don’t tell him especially if he’s in rehab. He will definitely relapse due to the stress. Life is more important than drama.

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No_Quiet_2741 t1_j55e9mm wrote

Just send him the money back and stop contacting him. You don't know who he is. He could be some desperate pedo sending girls money to meet them, or he could be a very dangerous person. Sending strangers money on the internet is not normal.

So to not get into deeper trouble, give him his money and leave him alone.

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FigLow4974 t1_j55b31k wrote

I’d say to give the money back, but he clearly isn’t a “good guy” like you say he is if he is soliciting nudes from a 16 year old “girl”. He is a pedophile. Take his money and ghost him.

Also, chances are if you show up in a different country where he lives as a minor, you’re not ever getting home. He will keep you there.

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mberk24 t1_j552qvz wrote

I hope this experience doesn’t have long lasting repercussions for you. Here’s what you need to do.

Break up with your boyfriend and fix yourself. You shouldn’t be in a committed relationship, based on your behavior.

Contact this guy you hooked up with and find out if the video was shared and demand the video be deleted. If he doesn’t, get legal help immediately.

I wish you luck in getting through this situation.

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HamsterSweets t1_j5514kl wrote

I'm glad it worked out! You never expect something like that to happen. And our first had been a totally smooth experience.

I always looked at the positives after he was born and sent to NICU. He was/is alive, he did great (though it took him a while to get the hang of feeding). And his diapers in the beginning were so little! They told me to keep a couple (of the 2nd size he wore; I never got a chance to ask about keeping the first size) and I love showing teeny tiny diaper to people. It's the size of my hand when fully unfolded.

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rengothrowaway t1_j54z6g0 wrote

That is so scary!

I feel so fortunate I was able to get as far along as I was, and that he was 5lbs at birth. We had very few problems, but it was scary to me how tiny he was. Preemie clothes were huge on him.

I’ve said the same about never doing it again. Luckily we had also agreed on two, and already had one. We are done.

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Birdbraned t1_j54uo9g wrote

That's also better than my story:

I'd ordered an uber and they were across the street about to make a u turn to get to my side of the street when someone else coming out of the T intersection behind them hits their front right wheel from a rear approach.

Gave the driver my take, they were nice enough to cancel, and I got another (for work)

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AshleyIRL t1_j54s3eh wrote

You didn't ask for this advice, but please heed the warning about how fast hamsters can reproduce and reconsider housing them together if you must get more than one. In brief, when I worked for the humane society a few years ago we had a couple surrender over 200 hamsters. They started with two hamsters one year prior. Feel free to DM for hamster info and tips if you'd like to.

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