Thats not exactly the same bud. One is keeping private information private. This person sought out strangers specifically to lie and pretend to be someone else. See how that's different?

They’re all dudes man. There’s no women in this story.

Honestly. I mean what you did is shitty.

Face the music for that.

Also, I think you should break up with your boyfriend. Being with an addict is one of the worst things honestly. It’s so isolating. It’s like being held hostage to their addiction. He can focus on himself better by himself. It will be better for both of you to break up it seems.

I am so confused by your reply lol. Some people are not cheaters and my saying that doesn’t make me a clout chaser…do you even know what that means? Lol you sound like a chronically online neckbeard who wants to sound hip with the lingo for the cool kids.

Or he has already seen the video. He could be in rehab or on a Bender after that. (Assuming any of this is true).

You seem like a shitty person from this story and I hope your “bf” leaves you after you tell him

Oh yes!

Found the one uncomfortable with their own masculinity.

Pretending to be a different person online is weird? Does the mean you are comfortable with your mom or your boss reading your reddit history?

😂

How long has your bf been "missing"? That seems kinda odd for a significant other to do something major like go into rehab without mentioning it first. Unless this isn't as serious of a relationship as you thought it was.

For experimenting with their identity online? That's a shitty thing to say to anyone, especially a kid.

I get that you don't want to hurt him. It's up to you if you want to come clean. Either way, I'd give the money back. It's probably not best to meet an older person over the internet.

I went to a private high school, which was way across town. For the first couple of years, I mostly relied on public transportation to get to and from school. One day, my train ran late and I missed the bus at my connection. This was shaping up to be a huge issue, since the next bus would not arrive for half an hour, causing me to be late for a final I had that day, automatic fail if I didn't make it for the bell. After a few minutes, an empty cab pulls up, and the driver asks me where I'm going, says hop in, he needs a passenger for the carpool lane. He and I were both in a rush, and even the carpool lane wasn't moving much, so homie just whips it in to the shoulder. He got me there just in time for my final. Pretty wild ride!

We have transcended to gay fan fiction. Nice. Tumblr is still alive in our hearts I see.

Did you not read what you were signing?

Everyone wants to say that and yet somehow everyone still does in their own way. Keep going for clout on Reddit and you won’t have a girlfriend to not cheat on 🤣

Should've "simmered down hoe"

Damn.. never thought I’d see my home town on Reddit. I hated growing up there with all the materialistic people that live there. Anyway.. I can’t help but wonder where in orinda they could possibly stand. At least when I lived there no place near the highway would possibly be safe to stand.

change? the relationship is dead. If he has any self respect he should never look at you again. And if you have any decency left you tell him

I can honestly say I never got drunk and cheated. I’m sure a lot of people can say that.

An ideal dream dude who also recorded her during sexual acts, cheated on their own boyfriend and proceeded to tell other people what happened. Sounds like a lovely fellow to blow a relationship apart over.

I mean, I wouldn't be too heart broken over a pedo's $300

He is not a really good guy. Who cares what you identify at here, you are 16, does he know this?

You should tell him. Letting him build himself for you just to break him later is worse. The truth may be a setback now but he can begin healing at least.

Unless being flirty and messing with others is something you both are ok with though, your relationship may be over.

I'm sorry that you messed up this bad, and I hope you can grow from it.