For the record him recording you guys without your knowledge is a felony. And you've got 2.5 years to decide what you want to do with the information I've given you.

Have a good day

Welp honestly these kind of situations are difficult for even non divergent types so you're doing fine. Worse comes to worse you tanked your friendship but it happens to everyone. It sucks but don't pester or fixate it will only make things worse

Might wanna pick a new major

that and cheated on his own boyfriend and bragged to our friend about it… so just a bit more than him recording me, which lets be clear is enough to make someone a bad person

but if he never knows he never hurts? it’ll weigh on my conscious but it won’t hurt him. idk i’m really torn because i know that he’s kinda in a fragile place rn. and it’s cheesy but he’s told me that i’m his one good thing rn and i don’t want to take that away from him. i’m still conflicted about everything. i’m leaning towards telling him anyways but it’s a lot of thinking going on here

Thats what I thought in the beginning too, but I'm mildly autistic so I'm often told by family that most people think different than me so for all I know people could get upset over stuff like that idk

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just clarifying even though it’s like the least important, i am a dude. i don’t know anything about all that revenge porn stuff. is there anyway i can force him to delete those videos?

Don’t overthink it, she’s probably just busy like she said. It would make no sense for her to be angry with you.

i am super worried. ik it probably didn’t come off as that way but i truly am worried. but i also know that he has gone ghost before when he gets in trouble.

yeah he was the dream ideal guy until he did all that…if i had known that he was like that i would have never let that happen. i cringe at the fact i thought he was dreamy

seriously don’t understand where the skepticism comes from. it’s badly written sorry.

1. he’s gone ghost before for a week or so and usually it’s because he gets in trouble with his family or the police or people on the streets

2. i could tell he wasn’t drunk because he grabbed the bottle like twice the entire time we were out

this isn’t some fun writing prompt or anything this is a fuckup that i made that i feel terrible about.

My bad! Yeah when you said you hooked up with someone with a boyfriend I was like, damn the person op hooked up with is just fucking everything in their path.

Makes more sense now lol.

this isn’t a fanfic it’s like actually happening to me right now😬

ik it’s probably the least important part of this comment but i just wanted to clarify i am a dude. anyways i totally agree. i’m not touching alcohol

OP has shame kink

"You're about as mature as a green banana." That is such a good comparison I'm gonna use it from now on lmao.

I missed it with all the people involved but you are right

You a hoe

Pretty obvious OP fucked up and made bad choices and we are all commenting on that, but can we pause for a moment to depreciate how crappy this guy is for recording her without her permission? That crap is awful. Despite everything you did, OP, sorry that happened. Might want to look into a revenge porn laws in your state in case he posts/distributes, whatever.

No excuses. Own your actions. And grow up. Like you have, hopefully.

I mean, yeah absolutely. Alcohol does lower your inhibitions though, he was definitely impaired. It doesn't excuse it or make it right at all.

I did this to someone at one point, I haven't touched alcohol since 2018 because of the way I'd act on it. Lets hope OP learns from his mistakes and grows.

Seriously, there is not a single coma or period on this whole thing.

And me my dad my brother I tried to read this three times and I have no idea of what’s going on despite the plenty of information being relayed looks like punches were exchanged and now its an issue

Why did you have to rush? It’s not like your dad was talking to you, so you had free time

I would definitely have requested a refund of my purchase before leaving.