Don’t ever tell him, if you do tell him you’re doing it to be selfish and to get it off your chest, you fucked up now you’ll have to live with what you did, suck it up and be a man

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Yes, you made a huge mistake, but that dude recorded you... How can that dude be your dream guy violating your privacy like that? You still have to face the consequences, but will he?

I put it to you that this was the best possible response.

Honestly it's none of the manager's business, so answering with such a ridiculous thing might point that out to him if he has an ounce of self-awareness.

how do i do that? i would call his family but his mom doesn’t like me since she’s super super homophobic. plus ik it’s gonna sound strange but i’ve never been to his house actually. he is pretty poor and he’s told me that he doesn’t like showing that part of him to people too much. so i’ve never seen his house or been to it.

15/10 cover-up because all he will think about is wtf is she saying you're on your period lmfao i think this is great you'll be ok

Have you checked the local police website to see if he's booked or tried to contact his family? I hope he's okay, and I hope you're able to work things out.

and also there is no way he’ll ever find out since all the friends that went out with us don’t know him or have his number or social media.

yes. this all happened on tuesday. he’s been missing since the beginning of january. that paired with the fact that he’s mentioned trying to get into a program makes me strongly believe this is the case.

Are you sure he doesn’t know? Like with 100% certainty? H could’ve gotten in touch with him through the birthday girl or some other way. You never have to tell your SO you cheated because something changes immediately and there’s some way to tell.

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Alcohol isnt your problem bud. You are the problem. Man of little character.

My mistake, I shouldn't have assumed. Apologies.

Legally, usually, there isn't. But posting it online? You can usually make the webhost take it down (or rather get a lawyer to send a letter if they won't). Making them delete it is a lot harder. You can always ask but there's no way to force that to happen. Good luck

Yo babe, wake up. The new banana for scale just dropped.

he doesn’t know. hes been missing since the beginning of january just fyi but your point still stands ig

Damn that sucks, but to a detached stranger it’s kinda hilarious

“I made an adult decision and now I’m paying the prices for said choices which include, realizing I made a mistake, my BF ghosting me for a completely valid reason, and getting called out for it on the internet.” Is the only way to read this.

Yes, you realized your “mistake”, I’m calling it a decision as someone that’s been cheated on, and that’s growth, but at the same time, He should completely ghosts you. It’ll feel a fraction of how bad as he must’ve felt when he found out.

I’m not saying you’re a shitty person, but you are. Learn from this and grow to do better in your next relationship should you get one

True.

patience can't hurt

That's literally everything. I immediately freaked out and decided to wait until today to say anything else.

Is that really all you said?

>then she probably wasn’t really a good friend in the first place and it wasn’t meant to be

Yeah, probably.

>I feel like I should add that ThePresidentsNipples is a badass name.

Ikr it kicks ass!

If whatever you said made her mad enough to tank the friendship like u/ThePresidentsNipples said, then she probably wasn’t really a good friend in the first place and it wasn’t meant to be. I feel like I should add that ThePresidentsNipples is a badass name.

>these kind of situations are difficult for even non divergent types so you're doing fine

That's actually kind of reassuring in a way. Phew.

>It sucks but don't pester or fixate it will only make things worse

Yeah you're right. I usually walk her + another friend to school every morning, I will ask her then in real life (since through text it's a bit harder to convey certain messages than through just talking). If she was genuinely angry, I'll just let her be.