Recent comments in /f/tifu

harleyspoison267 t1_j5au21e wrote

Reply to TIFU by burning my hoohah chub in the shower by CheesyMoo23

As a fellow curvy vagina owner, I highly recommend a showerhead on a hose so you can detach it. You can find a basic one for cheap and the install is straightforward. Residual soap in the downstairs is super unhealthy (and just uncomfortable), and since we switched our showerhead I haven't had any problems. This also means you can check the temperature before pointing it directly at any delicate areas. Good luck 🤞

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No-Hippo5631 t1_j599pyn wrote

Reply to comment by Kanniebaal in TIFU by sending my friend a condolence message about her Dad dying by damndarling

Honestly I say it because I'm clueless and also just awkward-- like I'm fine with small talk and lighthearted joking, or discussing difficult things with close friends. If we're friendly but you're not super close/someone I pretty much consider family basically, then I won't know what you want unless you give me a hint (or say outright), and the more tragic or difficult your situation, the more awkward I'll feel, and the more likely I'll act awkward, muck it up guessing and/or end up saying something that offends you accidentally in the process due to me feeling awkward overriding my ability to human. Just tell me if there's anything imminent, text me if you think of something, text me if you wanna vent, but otherwise I'll assume you wanna be left alone and don't want me making things more complicated for you.

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mikecherepko t1_j594dov wrote

Reply to Tifu by being mad at my dad by [deleted]

Now you have experienced what it’s like to deliver a line that can destroy someone. Remember what that’s like and only do it when consciously choose to from now on.

But to the extent there was truth in what you said, maybe talk about that with your dad when you are speaking again.

In this story, your dad didn’t realize when he went too far and in response you went further, which was also too far. Why do you have to be the more grown up person about this?

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Phatcat15 t1_j58h2bq wrote

Reply to TIFU by getting drunk and cheating on my boyfriend by Nuggs_and_drugs

TBH I think you’re protecting yourself by blaming alcohol. It’s never an excuse - and you need to examine your own behaviors and thoughts without trying to shield it by blaming the booze. It’s clear you didn’t black out - so this is 100% on you regardless if booze made it easier to make a choice it sounds like you would take sober.

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