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substeff t1_j5f1v9o wrote

I didn't realize how much I hurt her with my actions. I always thought it would be fine as she was angry with me but after she settled she always said that she is happy that I am here. I am turning 27 this year and I didn't realize that I am still selfish at times that I shouldn't be which I truly regret because she deserves better.

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brainpain152 t1_j5ew42s wrote

It sounds like even if she gives you a chance to prove you can be different, you won’t be able to. You’ve clearly disrespected her boundaries on numerous occasions. You need to do some major self reflection and work on yourself before you’re ready to be in any relationship.

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SalamanderDue3131 t1_j5evv82 wrote

Been in the same boat before, you need to make changes to yourself before you try going back to her. And when you think you’re doing better, keep trying even if you feel like you’ve plateaued because if you stop improving yourself you’ll ruin everything again. Fix yourself then regroup.

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autopsygas t1_j5ej51i wrote

You're not TAH exactly, but you're being a bit full on. Going over to say hello? Being mad he didn't tell you? Texting him maybe you shouldn't talk any more?

Youre clearly taking him seeing someone some kind of way, when honestly he doesn't owe you an explanation or introduction.

That being said, out of all the bars to go to he goes to yours? Very weird. I'm gonna go with ESH

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wasted-degrees t1_j5dqkux wrote

My in-laws are South American, and they’re also judgmental and hypocritical as fuck. But that’s okay. They’re terrible to everyone in their family, including my wife, and kinda shitty people in general, so I don’t respect them or care about their opinion.

My wife is great, and she’s the one that matters. Also, my wife and my mom get along great.

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