Yeah, not good on the wahoo, either. Speaking (M) from hard-earned experience

If you think the tea tree is bad, just wait until you try the peppermint!

Proof?

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Like the days back before cell phones when you read every single shampoo and soap bottle within reach while sitting on the pot.

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It's also full of scents and not actually good for your bits.

This is one of many reasons why waxing is superior to shaving. You will still be a little tender...but that improves with regular attendance and no razor burn afterwards. Swapped to waxing two years ago and will never go back.

Nah, tea tree is great for irritations and skin issues down there. But not straight oil. Mixed into a lotion base, or diluted with plenty of warm water as a splash or compress. Thursday Plantation has some terrific products that won’t burn you. Tingle, yes. But that feeling only lasts a few seconds.

It sounds like you know you have some progress to make, which is honestly a huge step. Speaking from my own experience, you might benefit from taking a while (a year or even more) away from dating, and instead focusing on your thinking patterns, which ones are unhealthy, and how you can retrain your brain to have healthier ones. For instance, if some things are quick to trigger jealousy in you, work on immediately identifying that and processing that feeling quickly, channeling it into something more actionable. In time, your initial response to those triggers won’t be as strong. This is a big part of how I approach personal growth, and after a relationship that kind of crashed and burned, I spent 3 years heavily focusing on this, and my relationships since have been so much more stable.

I wish you the best!

She told you not to do it.

She explained why you shouldn't do it.

She got upset every time you did it.

How do these three things add up to

>I always thought it would be fine

??!??

i blindly ran in to the peppermint one day and screamed loud enough about it that the neighbors came to check - brutal.

Summers Eve. It's a wash meant for your bits and it's pH balanced for it.

Exactly! Summers Eve and you never use anything on your sensitive areas unless directed to do so. If it doesn't say it's for vaginal use, do not use it on your bits.

You shouldn't even use soap down there. It messes up the pH. Water is good, soap is bad (unless is specifically for that only)

SUMMERS EVE. Everyone needs to stop using whatever the hell on their lady bits. Only use products that are meant for your sensitive areas. If it doesn't say for vaginal use, DO NOT USE IT ON YOUR BITS. Lol

Penis owner here. Tea Tree Soap/Shampoo just burns me up.

>The Karen’s are uniting. There are like 50 different instructions on the bottle and typically washing yourself is pretty cut an dry. I don’t think most people feel the need to read instructions when they buy a new body wash. Just turns out dr bronners is different. She made a mistake that was understandable and it was really only compounded because of her razor burn. But I guess on some level we all know that people like you only come to Reddit for the heady sense of smug self satisfaction and superiority that you can only achieve by pointing out another persons faults and follies.

Gotta be honest, if I'm gonna rub a chemical all over my body, I read the instructions first. Even on soap, even on shampoo.

Wrong forum 😂

Next time, a warm bath with Epsom salts instead...

And yet he could have displayed the tiniest bit of social awareness and sensitivity by taking his date somewhere else, and chose not to. My take is that he wanted her to see him on a date (for whatever reason).

Vulva

You can buy soap with an altered PH so it matches the PH down there

Everyone knows not to put soap on razor burn…if you don’t know this you deserve what you get. Are you pissed that mouthwash doesn’t tell you not to put in your eyes?

What a stupid “relationship”.