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I think in the moment, it would be hard to know what to do. There’s a lot of pressure from being in a place where you know a lot of people and it’s a new situation that you weren’t aware of prior and none of there people you knew, knew about it either. I think maybe you wanted the others to know you were okay with it more than you wanted the ex to know. It could have been both, I’m not sure.

Definitely, like others have said, he wanted you know about it, but likely didn’t know how or didn’t want to tell you directly. Given this event, I don’t think he cares about you as much as you might think.

You "rlly" suck

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I think you meant to post this in the r/iamatotalpieceofshit sub.

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Lmao

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Dunno how you think this is an actual post and not a shitpost

I think you have an unhealthy obsession with a social media influencer

Nice meme /s

Tell her to disown her child and forget about it. She could always have more children.

Nah. I've made mistakes that hurt people before. Just try to be better. It's all you can do.

The fact that she reached out to you, said she felt bad about having him, and then texted you saying sorry tells me she's sad, struggling, and desperate for a friend....and you shouldn't be that friend or rather can't be that friend. I hope she finds a good, nice friend that can be there for her and help....I feel bad for her.

This is the worst thing I've read on the internet today, and I just read THIS for the first time only minutes ago.

TLDR: You're Smegma.

That is true. Would be a lot of waste.

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You should try to be better & more empathetic than your family then. Ask your friend to explain her experience with raising her child so you can better understand.

Ouch, been there done that but with the male parts(tingly balls for DAYS).

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Read the label, you are supposed to dilute the CRAP out of it. a small squirt on a washcloth is what they recommend for body washing. A 1/10 ratio of soap to water for dishes. I found once I diluted it I was able to use it in sensitive areas.

Since you already have it, I wouldn't get rid of it even if you stop using it down there. The wash and the wipes would actually probably be really good for armpits after intense workouts or hot sweaty days

Thanks lol I’m trying. You can blast me I know I’m in the wrong. I just want some opinions on the situation 👍

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>I get where your coming from but the entire point of dr bronners is that it’s completely organic. No added chemicals

Being "organic" means they have much less control over what concentration is safe for skin...

>And you gotta be the exception most people don’t feel the need to

Oh really? I appreciate your confidence, but I'm fairly certain neither of us know which behavior is the exception and which is the rule.

Yeah that's pretty understandable. Still know knowing that it's bad for vaginal health and I still think I'm gonna stop it altogether. I don't want to cause problems for myself later. Lol the wipes I only use when I absolutely need to but the wash is a daily thing. So anything to help myself be better about it and the environment, I'd gladly throw them out.

Don't feel bad. There has been a lot of marketing for a very long time aimed at making people think it's necessary, and the medical establishment isn't always great about communicating about this kind of thing because it's usually not really their job unless it's causing problems. There's also a lot of weird sexism and shame that would take too long to get into here that helps perpetuate these ideas. Blame lack of good sex ed. I took a lot of microbiology, anatomy and physiology, etc and even did some sexual health work, but it still took like 5 rounds of BV for either me or my doctor to realize what was going on.

If it's worked out well for you, then it's probably fine. It also might be weird to suddenly stop (who knows, every body is different), so I'd start by just using it less frequently to see how it goes. I just wouldn't advocate it to others unless it's a "if you absolutely must" situation. I would avoid buying the wipes again, though, if only because they're bad for the environment

You should consider finding a new gyno, likely.