Recent comments in /f/tifu

unique616 t1_j5j2kx8 wrote

All babies ugly but you aren't supposed to tell people behind their backs ever or to their face unless they specifically request and beg you for an honest answer about themselves. I learned that myself as a little kid so you should know better too. I hate it when people take it too far though. People need to follow the "If you don't have anything nice to say" rule. It's cruel and also spreading lies to say that you love somebody's new ugly haircut. Those people aren't your friends. They are encouraging you to look bad.

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killerkow999 t1_j5iy638 wrote

While I understand where you were at from past trauma I would've drop kicked you out a second story window or went into a severe mental breakdown, that is just kinda a weird way to mess with people and you don't know how they are going to react

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panbert t1_j5ix7c7 wrote

It isn't alcohol that's the problem, it's you. Many years ago a girl told me "A drunken man has a sober mind". Basically, when alcohol takes away our inhibitions, the real person comes to the fore.

You need to learn why an 18 year-old wants to go around biting people.

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Frequent-Community-3 t1_j5iwqol wrote

Were you never taught to be kind and accepting of others despite any differences? I cannot fathom how a grown-ass person could laugh at a differently-abled child and then just laugh it off later, also. You are severely lacking in empathy and definitely not deserving of your friend's time and energy. I'm actually embarrassed for you, not them, though you certainly don't deserve the empathy you obviously can't show to others. You should be ashamed of yourself and begging HER forgiveness, not the other way around.

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Certain_Finding_9361 t1_j5iv1vg wrote

Yeah, no, it sounds like the kind of crap antics most teenagers get into, if there are repeated incidents, or a dependency on alcohol then I'd say there's a problem.

Stopping drinking is one way to stop this happening in the future, although there is nothing wrong with a drink in moderation.

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