Wow, I hope it's treatable and can be kept under control. If you don't mind me asking, how much were you drinking before and how long? It's a bit unusual to onset at an age so young, makes me worried about myself.

You’re abhorrent

Karma always gets the kunt. ⏰️

?? I was expecting him to be an actual psychopath. You are both troubled but none are psychopaths.

Wishing you all the best. r/stopdrinking is a great resource. It helped me immensely. My username was just the beginning of my journey. Hope you get healthy.

Hoping things go all right for you. ❤️

Interesting. So I guess sober people may never know their true selves.

Disposing a child is not easy. We used to throw them in a river back in the day.

What exactly are you even doing to find the missing boyfriend? This entire story is trivial nonsense compared to the extreme lack of care that someone has been MIA since the beginning of the month…

Interesting. It takes me not 3 minutes but maybe 15,20 min to feel a shot. Basically until the next round comes despite consuming allegedly alcohol-suppressing Slavic food alongside it. Not my culture so what do I know but damn, I do have a very low threshold.

The people in these comments are either 12 or 70 and have never lived. Its a bite, they didn’t try to gouge out someone’s eyes. Even then, my buddy and I are still chill cause he ended up needing staples in his head.

I’m not an alcoholic, and in fact prefer not to drink at all whenever possible with the main exception being the new year’s holiday cuz my in-laws are Slavic vodka-loving raisins that get truly offended if you don’t have at least a couple toasts and switching to water/juice won’t do for them. I can get drunk with a single glass of wine, which is a nuisance to my wife and a great copout for me to avoid it altogether when we go out. Sorry, I didn’t know it was that uncommon but I do know never mind the ever present second hand snore, not drinking alcohol it’s a fucking nightmare while trying to socialize or even just dine while in most of Europe.
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wow!

wishing you the best possible outcome with your health.

Sounds like a drunk 18 year old doing drunk 18 year old dumb shit. Blacking out twice because you’re a light weight isn’t an indicator of having a problem. It just means you can’t hold your liquor

Idk. Seems like you did this to yourself by opening the relationship up to other people. He slept with another woman just like you said he could and you didnt like that and the entire thing ended after you both agreed. It wasnt as hidden or seperate from him as you thought it was id imagine... it really seems like you both did it to eachother and it's still effecting you both.

This is something you shpuld both be talking to eachother about honestly. Rather than an internet forum

Meh, I’ve gotten into fist fights with my black out drunk buddies a few times. Had one of them try to gouge out my eyes after I choked him out for being a dipshit. Have given and received black eyes, cuts and bruises, and killer head aches. Shit happens, we’re all still cool. The only guy we’ve cut contact with got blacked out and tried to punch my buddies gf. Only ever been bitten once though.

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what symptoms were you experiencing that made you need to go to the doctor in the first place?

You didn't really do anything wrong imo. It's just a bad situation. Hopefully she'll be okay and rethink the amount she drinks in future. I don't say this to victim blame her because I don't think what you did counts as sexual assault, but it's not wise to drink so much that you blackout.

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Glad to hear she cut another toxic person out of her life

“Read one comment and stopped reading.” Lol. You’re too into yourself to not read every single comment on this thread. That’s the only other scenario besides ragebait. Crazy how ragebait is the better option. But if you insist you’re a self centered, intolerable human being then I won’t stop you. I bet all your friends just tolerate you. I bet you know it’s true too.

That sucks. Unfortunately, booze and hormones have fucked up many a friendship... If she assured you things were ok, and in the past she has blocked messages during a time of duress, then probably the best thing to do is assume that she needs some space to take stock of everything. If she has emotional issues that have gotten her committed in the past and she's going through it now, it may be best to give her that space for the time being. Also, if she was that drunk, she would have no doubt been terribly hungover, and maybe needs a couple days convalescing to get back to normal.

PSA for everyone reading this: if a friend is coming onto you really hard despite never showing interest in you before, and they are quite drunk, don't do it. Especially if you're a dude and she's a chick. We all do dumb stuff when we're drunk. Emotions get weird, we do or say things we don't mean... So, if all of a sudden out of nowhere they're all over you, it could be the booze talking. Best thing to do in my experience is say that you're both drunk, or even just say it's you, and try to get them to stop. If they're on full blackout and don't or barely remember it, that's great; if they do remember it, well, it's better to have a conversation about it sober, form sure.

In any case, hope you guys are able to work through it and continue on as friends 🍻🙏

I mean is he a psychopath or is he playing with the cards you dealt him.