That stuff is STRONG I’ve scrubbed slightly to hard on my man parts with it once. ONCE. My god that burn is like no other

I really dont understand how can someone able to decide to have sex yet they hate other partner for accusing them abuse. I mean I drunk many alcohol and used many drugs. There is no way I am having sex without being aware of it. I know people have different reactions but at least you must be aware that you cant control yourself when drunk. Ofc it might not black and white but I think its never one sided unless its rape.

You should have ended your relationship if you wanted to explore with a new partner. Him bringing a escort is the result of a chain of consequences of you not ending your relationship in the beginning.

Why hand in your notice? If they didn't fire you for that you could at the very least just continue doing just your work. If they fire you for not doing other's work you have a reason to request unemployment.

holy hell what kind of shit family did you grow up in? Laughing at another human being is a horrible thing to do, especially in front of them and their loved ones.
How is it your family's business to claim what she "should have done"? She should have abandoned the child? Sorry? So it can grow up abandoned and in isolation instead? Or so whoever else adopted it would be a saint that "shouldn't have adopted such a child"?

She made a choice to keep the child for a reason, and she's genuinely hurt about the struggle he'll have. She's a good person. She's right that your reaction was toxic; and that you decide you don't feel bad just because she made the choice to cut you out is also toxic. You should gain some maturity and acknowledge that you did something bad and she's in her full right to reject contact with you. You should be able to respect it without being vengeful (and now feeling right in your actions.). Your family might be assholes. Naturally assholes will support asshole behavior. It's an extremely toxic notion to talk down and tell someone what they "should have" done with their child. Gross.

One positive though, you've gone down in history. All those people you worked with will be talking about you in 20 years time, remember that guy who sent everyone a picture of his dick? Lol

You will be remembered, for something lol 😅

In her eyes, you raped her.

I’m an immigrant in Germany. The tolerance for tragic situations caused by immigrants has dropped to a very low level. Two years ago there was a similar situation in Frankfurt where a guy intentionally pushed a boy to the tracks and killed him.

It's about talking honestly and doing the work (in the relationship and your own self) to lessen the jealousy.

He was willing to lie about some big things. Didn't even admit until later he did the escort thing just to hurt her. How can you have an open and honest discussion when one party can't even be fully honest with themselves?

I'm calling the cops and cps.

He's lying and manipulating with the cards he's been dealt. Saw it in the tea leaves for years that she was primarily lesbian and tried to convince her to stay unhappily with him to spare the pain of having to start over. What you just said reads like a psychopath

Well you almost killed a guy and then swooped into save his life. I hope that is taken into consideration if charges are pressed. The guy may be too drunk to comprehend what has happened but I hope the railway authorities are not looking the other way.

Where are you from? Murder is pretty far from what charges you might be facing.

I get that if it was North Korea or Afghanistan you might have been facing some severe punishment, but in civilised countries we actually take the context into consideration.

Communication is key my friend :) im glad You reached out!

Child abuse and probably groomed for sexual abuse as well.

Kid asking to shower together? Good grooming OP.

Asking a 12 year old to clean up alcohol? Good parenting.

Kid coming in, me drinking in another room ... (X) doubt.

Seems like kid is being abused on a regular basis but got drunk for the first time and OP decided to share or just made this shit up but is a very bad writer.

Sounds like an episode of The Office and I swear I can see your coworker staring into the camera rn

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What I meant, but worded it badly, is in situations like this it is always best to apologise and speak to the people involved directly instead of going and talking to everyone else and asking the internet. People can't give you the best advice because they don't really know the person, the best way for you to learn is to speak to people yourself and apologise and ask how to make it up to them.

Personally, I feel some things you can turn to the internet for help with but this is one of the times when it's best to clear the air directly and find out where you stand instead of avoiding it.

Happy to hear everything is okay though

Yeah, don't ever listen to other people's interpretations of your own social interactions. Unless it's someone they're intimately familiar with, they have no idea what's "written on her face" or if your behavior would or does make her genuinely uncomfortable. You did the right thing just asking her.

Okay so I did manage to ask her about it and apologise. We had a 10min back and forth on text and looks like we’re chill.

As for writing on the internet… I didn’t really know what to do in this case because I was scared about ruining the relationship that I have with Emma and it’s not really practical to keep asking Jessie about this

Everyone wants to be the next 2 broken arms story

Thanks! I’ll keep that in mind next time I hang out with people. As I said, I like to hug people but I also understand (especially after that incident) that it’s not always well received and I should be looking out for visual cues.

You laughed at a child you describe as deformed and said something so mean you won't even repeat it here. Of course you're the asshole, you moron.

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