So many questions.

Ok asking a stupid question. Lightsaber? Is this a new sex toy I'm unaware of or are we talking like a light up movie prop toy?

What a shitstorm.

He was an asshole in wanting to hurt his GF, but from my point of view, the GF opened that door. And yes, he was an asshole in the way he did it because he knew exactly what would hurt the most - younger and more beautiful. But it was one time he did that hurt, and he'd been taking it for a while. It adds up.

I don't see psychopathy in this, at all; rather someone who's been hurt by someone whom he loved, who's taken it for quite a while and needed to lash out. He shouldn't hurt someone whom he's supposed to love; but he shouldn't be deliberately hurt by someone that's supposed to love him back.

Can't help but feel he did it right - in her face, and with a woman that would make her alarm bells ring all over and force her to face the consequences.

As for the GF - quite selfish in the way she did it. She wanted her comfort, bills paid, the whole thing, and don't tell me she didn't know he was hurting and she was taking advantage of his willingness to suffer to keep her.

It is also very telling that once she felt *that* pain, she immediately wanted to stop it. So - it was ok for him to be miserable, not her. He was an asshole - but that's what it took for him to get some consideration for his pain.

Frankly, hurting back because one was hurt ranks lower in the asshole scale than hurting someone because one can get away with it.

I hope for that poor baby they get their shit together.

tl;dr Another pair of gumbies tries out polyamory, gets what they asked for.

Either rage bait or you're scummy af

OP just want clarification that she is not the asshole, instead faced with realities from mature comments here...

It is like both should communicate things much better from the beginning, thats all

Her mam

Haha...

You were bragging so hard about how you played dumb to PR and were gonna make it through this.

Yet, it was too much for you.

After reading another comment, I see where the misunderstanding came from. My response didn't really have much to do with the comment I replied to.

Lol this whole relationship is stupid

I was using the term process in the sense of the alcohol being broken down then released by the body. But I see where the confusion came from.

That's fair and agree. I didn't say that though. I only said process. Which to me, would mean the processing of said chemical to it's final form and being released by the body.

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IF this is actually real...

I typically don't advocate for violence, but you should be surprised she didn't smack you across the face.

His mam*

Depends how hot your mom is

Do they, though?

As stated in another response, metabolizing alcohol is the process of breaking it down and removing it from the body. Yes, the body processes alcohol to remove it, but alcohol does not need to be processed by the digestive system to get into the bloodstream and make a person feel drunk.

Metabolizing alcohol is what makes you sober. It is the process of removing the alcohol from the body. That is the process that takes one hour per drink (for an average person).

The comment you originally replied to was in regards to the time it takes to get drunk. The person was doubting that OP got drunk beyond the capacity for rational thought in three minutes.

I share the doubts about the veracity of the post, but it absolutely does not take one hour for alcohol to get into a person’s bloodstream and make the person intoxicated. That’s would be a misunderstanding of what it means to metabolize alcohol.

Same. Kept waiting for a plot twist which never came, now I'm confused af. I actually find the lady a bit worse? 🤔 I mean she started the drama and ended it, dude went along and well he has his faults but oh well none of ma business

Bro your mom sucks

Uhm, that guy is not a psychopath. Everything he’s feeling is natural. Even when he was acting out of resentment. That you somehow think you are better is very screwed up. Both of you are having a child. Get your shit together for the child’s sake.

I know i didnt rape her rape her. She was awake, aware of what she was doing, and happy ab it. But ur right. That doesnt matter bc in her eyes, she was hanging out w a friend and then she woke up naked. I get what ur saying. Imma have to j wait to see if shell ever call me to get my honest acct. Think that would do more than texts to show her the full picture

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this guy may not be the worst person on reddit...but he's the worst i've seen today.