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m4vis t1_j5pz83u wrote

Reply to TIFU My fiance[38m] posting on reddit and getting destroyed made me [28f] realize I’ve been with a psychopath by marriedtoapsychopath

Waaaay too many comments here glossing over the fact that when this girl was 18 years old, this 28 year old man talked her into ending her relationship to get with him (his words). Are you fucking kidding me.

Opening up their relationship was a messy, risky thing to do but it wasn’t morally wrong given everyone’s consent. But what is wrong, is hiring an escort to use as an emotionally manipulative scheme and lying about it.

This dude is a fucking creep and hiring an escort specifically chosen to wound her and make her feel insecure while playing out that scene is god damn psychotic.

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live_shyne_die_ t1_j5pyhzq wrote

Reply to comment by Careless-Comedian859 in TIFU by breaking up with my boyfriend by [deleted]

This, you two are still very young but are able to have a mature talk about certain circumstances just as long as you sit down and attack the PROBLEM together and not each other. Try to make a list of things you want to mention so you don’t forget in the moment and regret not bringing them up later

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Ek0sh t1_j5px29b wrote

Reply to comment by kdavis37 in TIFU My fiance[38m] posting on reddit and getting destroyed made me [28f] realize I’ve been with a psychopath by marriedtoapsychopath

Ah yes the ancient man art of talking to a lesbian and making her leave her girlfriend for you. She is a crazy bitch and he hold there like a freaking saint. Whats the fuking problem on hiring an escort when you have the explicit consent of your partner and shes already been in another relationship for a year.

He didnt manipulate her. She noticed how harmful were her actions when she saw those same actions being made against her. She manipulated him into allowing an alternative relationship.

And what the actual fuck on your enfasis on him admiting he cant get dates (not actually what is in the post btw), what is the Big deal. You are in an open relationship but cant get girls? Why not hire a hooker? Where the fuck is the manipulation? Whats the difference if he found and actual date. Literally zero.

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