So were you naked in front of your parents? or did this not actually happen?

As a man who has been in this situation i strongly sugguest you talkto him before it's to late. My now current ex waited almost 6 minths before saying anything to me and by the point I had already attempted to move on. It just further complicated my own relationships as well as my relationship with her. Overall it ended up not being well for either of our mental health. So please if you really care about this man reach out and speak to him. Communication is key in any sort of relationship whether it be friendship or something more. Explained what happened how you felt and maybe if u can identify early signs of it to help him recognize the situation. I 100% would have never moved on if i would have known then what i know now.

This sounds like a 12 year old’s idea of what it’s like to be a parent and to drink.

Pork sword?

Yeah its a shitty situation for all involved. If you can't get enough for him to go, perhaps you could try and make up by spending a day with him doing fun stuff? Movies or getting lunch or something.

Kept waiting for the psycho and it never came, he was just a jerk and tried to make you jealous while you had a side relationship for a year or so. The fact that it was in your face hurt you but you expected him to not be hurt by a romantic relationship of a year in which you tried to end things and say you were a lesbian? You can’t see any of your mistakes and blame him for everything. You both don’t know how to communicate and you were either cheating romantically or had no right to be mad about him banging anyone. Only you can do stuff cause it’s “hidden” even though he knows? 😂

Hey at least you don’t have to help pay for the wedding now.

If he said wants to stay friends is a good sign

No parent ever would just openly and shamelessly say "i went into the other room one morning and got out-of-my-mind drunk" so casually.

This is obviously not a real post, imho.

Please do this ASAP. Most schools have financial aid programs for things exactly like this.

Just tell him what you told us and if he's the one he will understand

I remember one time my BFF (blonde girl same age as me) and I were both in ruts after horrible breakups in college. We made it a thing to go to Applebee's and get sloshed on the weekends, where people would make comments like we were such a cute couple. This was a weekly thing to pass the time which was better than moping alone.

One time though she said something along the lines of "you need to get more drunk so I can take you back to my place and take advantage of you." My eyebrows shot up so fast and I was absolutely flabbergasted because despite some intermittent flirting between us over the years there has never been a crossing out of the very deep friend zone both of us had each other in. Nothing happened, I brushed it off, and we moved on. She got married, I got married, and she was my best (Wo)man. Definitely better that the line was never crossed, even if the opportunity was there.

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Maybe if you approach the school and talk to them they’ll help ? If you explain the situation could pay them off . Schools I’ve been a part of don’t want to see kids miss out on things .

We had a guy in our group get everything stolen by what looked like an older business man...he waited until the train was making a curve and acted like he was just leaning with the force of it

My honest opinion is if it was in gar du nord train station and you didn't see this guy get tested for alcohol I'd say he was a pick pocket... especially with the timing of the other train coming in.... The Paris subway is pretty notorious for them and almost all of them have an act they play such as a drunk or a business man etc

Whatever you say man

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I could see how paying bills would take priority over a field trip when it comes to remembering. I don't think you are a shit parent only based on this one mistake.

I'd rather have food, clothes and shelter instead of a field trip. But I am antisocial.

Why would you stick a laser sword up your butt

You're a Stormpooper.

A sword

I said a comment reads like it was coming from a psychopath. Not that the dude in the story is one. Reading comprehension dude.

I'm gonna have to pull a MO and say show me.