i mean there’s not much left that i can do. i’ve contacted his friends, gone to his school, gone to his neighborhood, called the local jail to see if he was arrested. i haven’t gone to his house cuz i don’t know where he lives and i don’t have his family’s number

no? i didnt write that anywhere? we were walking around a like fancy park downtown and then went shopping and then to eat.

wtf ..

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If you feel bad about breaking his heart then till him that the pill messed with your head, you never stopped loving him and fix it

Don’t waste time saying you fucked up on Reddit that has zero chance of fixing anything

For crying out loud you actually have a valid excuse and u haven’t used it? If u had said I wanted to shop around then u leave him alone because then it comes off like you’re just settling for him

But if it was just the pill then go for it

You have any number of reasons to blame for why you did what you did. You literally have no-one to blame but yourself if you don't reach out and explain to him what was happening to give him the chance to understand and forgive you for what was out of your control. Don't be that person that disappears a whole possibility of their life through anxiety and fear. Grasp that hope that he'll understand and even if he doesn't, it will be because he doesn't want to rather than because he doesn't know.

you’ve got this! if he’s the one, he will understand and will be missin you as much as you are missin him. update us though pleaseeeee

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I thought he was gonna be like really evil or something, in reality you’re both a little fucked, I mean an 18 year old and a 28 year old should’ve never started dating. You two should definitely not be together and start focusing on your kid

No, OP. Today you fucked up by sharing the responses to your situation from a relatively progressive subreddit (AITD) to a very regressive one. There’s a reason most of us stay off of mainstream subreddits like this one, or AskReddit, or PublicFreakout, or whatever. Most minority folks don’t want to deal with dozens of 25-year-old white dudes giving their shit takes on situations that have nothing to do with them.

Notice how the majority of these folks have glossed over the fact that your ex-partner thought it was okay to coerce a teenager into a long-term relationship. They also pretended not to see that you were financially dependent on this much older person. These people genuinely believe there is no power differential between an almost-child and the 30-year-old man she is dependent on.

These people(men) would need an itemized list of every time he beat you half to death before they’d even consider calling him abusive. If you want support for anything less than that, you’ll have to go somewhere where the majority of the demographic doesn’t empathize with your abuser. I recommend r/TwoXChromosomes or r/actuallesbians for general support but I’m sure there’s more niche subreddits for the sort of abuse you suffered.

cleaning up the bottle(S)

Bro, go talk to him right nowwwwwwwww.

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You should start therapy now because it’s only going to get MORE difficult once the baby arrives. It’s not going to “calm down” as you said. Y’all need to start working on this ASAP or your child is going to suffer as a result.

I mean, I understand why he got dragged, but it wasn’t because he’s a psycho. He obviously loves you OP, and that made him make two horrible decisions:

1. He stayed the relationship when you asked for an open emotional and physical relationship with one specific person who was and still is (assuming Christina is the “friend” who pointed you to his post) a threat to your relationship with him.

2. Doing something spiteful to you because he was hurt that you chose someone else.

But you made an equally horrible decision by not breaking up with him when you found out what he did. You too doubled down on a bad hand and decided to stay with him, and now you two have a child on the way.

My advice is to get individual therapy, and ask him to get couples therapy, to be able to functionally coparent the kid at least, and secondarily to figure out if you two can salvage a healthy romantic relationship (he also has lingering issues about what you want).

Can't believe people believe this shit.

The rest of your posts have been dick pics and talking about how big you think your dick is and fanfic about girls not wanting to hook up with you because of how big it is, then you write this fanfic where you "accidentally" send pictures of your dong to your coworkers?

You're sad, dude.

I am sad the post is deleted, I want to see the absurdity.

I think you’re pulling that suspicion out of your arse, and that you would benefit from being less cynical. But for what it’s worth, nobody should ever send money or offer shelter to random Reddit users.

No, what I'm asking is whether this post is from a scam artist hoping someone will send them money.

It’s usually the Jedi not the lightsaber that turns to the dark side

Lord have mercy these two people are about to be responsible for a child together.

You again? It isn’t the same account. What gives you the impression that these two accounts belong to one person?

Is this you?

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