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jus-de-pomme OP t1_j5t7nhy wrote

It’s just a very weird situation, I went through the payment part twice except the second time I didn’t receive any sort of confirmation email. The airline people kept saying my flight is unconfirmed so to confirm it I would have to pay again. It’d be fine if my booking actually went through, but the fact that that’s not happening makes this situation all the more worse.

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lollipopfiend123 t1_j5t6xbj wrote

Is it possible that there’s currently only an authorization but not a finalized charge? I once thought a company double charged me because at first, the money was subtracted twice. But once the transaction was finalized, there was only one charge. Turns out the bank had some sort of temporary display glitch that caused all the pending transactions to show up twice.

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No-Hippo5631 t1_j5t0g76 wrote

Jesus I'm just glad you're alive... I once accidentally took 2 adderall (or 5 minutes apart bc I forgot the first dose), I'm very tolerant to stims (can drink 2-3 monster energy drinks in the morning and only feel slightly less sleepy), I thought I was going to throw up due to nausea and my eyes felt like they would explode.

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yogopig t1_j5sy52x wrote

Honestly you need to give yourself some credit in this situation. Yes you fucked up, but there’s really nothing you did wrong, if that makes sense.

You are not some “junkie” looking to get high here, you have a monster inside you thats vying to take control of you, and you seem well equipped to fight it.

You are just trying to treat a health condition, whose treatment unfortunately has risks. You knew going into this that there was a chance of this sort of thing happening. You made sensible and thought out plans to account for that chance. Instead of hiding your history, you made sure to be completely transparent with your physician about these risks. Both of you balanced the benefits with the risks and mutually decided to proceed. After it happened you immediately went and told your boyfriend (which was kinda sweet honestly), and of course he isn’t going to be happy about that, but honestly thats okay.

Except for that single moment of weakness where the addict inside you took control, you did the right responsible thing at every single step. That’s really a huge deal, and will carry you more than anything else.

Go easy on yourself, your doing fine.

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blueblueblue432 t1_j5sy0nf wrote

To be honest I think deep down she should know she initiated. Maybe she's trying to save face. But if she truly doesn't remember then that's a bad situation. Either way I feel for you. Don't feel like you did anything wrong

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