Yep, I've managed people out before. It takes months though, you can't just fire someone for something their friend has told them.

And a lawyer would be very interested in a long and expensive lawsuit, and would do it for no win, no fee as well.

Ok, but I literally said she is a big part of the problem. Why do men here think the man can’t ever be part of the problem? I hope you don’t carry that attitude into your real life relationships.

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Sounds like you're getting screwed by the shrink.

Okay lets say that happens. Not a lot of people are gonna be willing to fight a long and expensive legal battle. But you can spin it however you want. They can just start treating him poorly. And those things are hard to prove.

That's why we have labour laws.

There are places with at will employment so he can be fired for pretty much any reason. Also they can say no he bad mouthed the company.

I'd like to see that exit interview.

'let me get this straight, you're firing me for being too honest and open? See you in court, or shall we settle now?'

You guys are exhausting

I actually think it’s quite compassionate of him to hire a sex worker. Rather than get emotionally involved with another person in this twisted situation y’all have created. I mean, at least there is only one Christina in this story.

thank you for being so kind. all I can do is keep trying, and I will keep trying. "a setback! nothing more!"

the thing is, he really /wasn't/ mad. I assumed he was,but he wasn't. he told me to come to bed an hour later and we're fine now. he was just understandably upset and needed a little time to cool off/process. i have exes who would have reacted violently to that and who I would not have been honest with about this situation out of fear.

I would absolutely do this if it wasn't a controlled substance that requires id to grab. maybe I will bring him along with me to get it and just immediately hand it over on our way home or something.

Women still have some bodily autonomy. She chose to have the baby. Negligence or not, take some responsibility, geez.

If you wonder why there is a label on something that says not to do something obviously stupid? This is the reason.

The point is if his other company oportunity fails and he gets fired then he is jobless. That is what they are worried about. If he gets the other job no big deal. But being jobless can really suck depending on the industry.

I have opened my mouth and shoved my foot in it more times than I can count. Sometimes we talk before we think it out.

You will know better in the future. Good luck to your bro

Is he changing jobs or changing company? If he's moving company, no big deal.

Also, if he's at a company where being seen as an open person is seen as a negative, you've not fucked up, he's better off out of there.

This is a pretty solid TIFU. I felt cringe and frustration at the same time. It was relatable and genuine. Bravo.

That’s what I was trying to figure out

He seems normal to me

Weird. His post is genuinely scared he’s going to lose you. He gave you a taste of your own medicine and he’s the bad guy for it??? No fucking way. OP, you suck for putting him through what you did. Make up your fucking mind and stop toying with other people.

My roommate in the Marines did a similar stunt in our barracks back in the day. Made a similar mess. But he was trying to cook scrapple, so the mess was also super smelly.

He was also an idiot, and there is a good chance you'll out grow it.

Oh I am.

Racists are worth less. The fact that you're trying to argue for racism is absolutely absurd since you're trying to take the moral high route.

I'm not comparing the worth of humans her. But I'm going to go ahead and disengage with you because you're clearly hurt and wanting others to feel the same. Have a good day, i hope you feel better