Christ what a dumpster fire. Like from every angle. Good luck to that kid. It’ll need it.

It sounds like your baby daddy isn’t into open relationships. I don’t think his method for communicating it was on point, but he doesn’t sound like a psychopath from that post alone. At the end of the day, once you have that kid…you’ll realize that your life isn’t just about you anymore. The most important job you’ll ever have is to make sure that child has everything they need, including your unconditional love and a healthy, supportive environment to grow up in. You’ll figure it out. Good luck, soon-to-be mamabear!

Don’t worry I don’t see him like I’m his supervisor. It’s always an equal thing with me and him. If anything he’s “supervising” me. Could be my bad English as wel

He needs a partner, not a supervisor. Not your fu.

You can be pissed, but you should have no more say about what he does to his own body than he has say about what you do to yours.

Calling something he did your fuckup because you weren't there to stop him doesn't sound like the right beginning to any mutually respectful relationship.

Yeah but I love my drunken idiot. Even tho he’s an idiot he’s still my idiot

So more of a "tifu by dating a drunken idiot" story 😉

You also dont see warning labels in your car not to run the engine in an enclosed space due to exhaust fumes, or a label on your toaster warnign you not to take a bath with it. Most hotels aren't explicit in every detail of what is against their fire prevention rules unless asked as otherwise there would be signs on everything, that would still be ignored (people wondering why their croissant caught fire when they ignore the signs to not put them in the toaster). Most hotels do not allow guests to use candles or incense in the rooms, and all of them that have electric heaters all ban putting clothes on them due to the fire risk.

So what if I'm on a high horse?

What does that have to do with the point?

No, no, let’s not get this twisted, I’m just saying yours is gross. Take a look around the comments to see if you can find someone with a higher horse. I’ll give you a cookie if you can.

Ah yes, ignoring it when it's inconvenient.

Yeah I’m sorry but between not knowing where he lives and the fact he might go to rehab without telling you - that’s just weird to me. That’s a shocking lack of communication. Being ashamed of his home environment or his family, etc, is completely understandable. Not actually knowing his address or having any way to verify his condition with someone else who knows him is really weird. I hope he’s ok. If my bf was missing for more than 48 hours I’d be pounding on doors.

True but I take a little blame fully knowing he’s a complete idiot when drunk

Honestly, this is more of a "yourBFfu" while drunk.

Happy you got a laugh out of it!

Wait, what makes you better then him? You left your significant other at home to spend the night at another lovers house? You created the toxic situation

Was expecting way worse, got a great laugh! Stupid, but endearing.

it’s not weird at all imo. he has his reasons for not bringing me over and they make sense. i know the area he lives in and even the street just don’t know his house number.

Is this a joke? I can't see anything wrong with his demeanor. You, on the other hand...

finally.. finallyy.. this happened D

Goddamn your moral superiority is gross, just shut up already

Oven takes too long to preheat, that’s why air fryers are the way, but I would take the iron out of the 2 choices you laid out

Actually you sound pretty awful too. Please figure something out for the sake of your baby.

Be sure to replace your fire extinguisher quickly, I have a feeling you might need it again.

Ye its kinda brutal, specially if ur kinda late to bloom when it comes to sex, it makes u depressed cuz u think somethings wrong with you, and then u maybe glow up at some point, get a girlfriend, u get down and dirty, and now u cant cum or keep it up.

which often makes her think bad thoughts which further spirals u down.

Shit sux so much... Childhood Trauma is honestly worse then torture (sorry bit of a rant, but i related to ur story abit)

but as others have said, if u like her, make her understand if shes ready to understand, otherwise just try to forget her, plenty of fish as they say.

I have stayed in many hotels and never have I seen a warning to not make grilled cheese sandwiches with the included iron and ironing board.