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ShaderzXC t1_j60c4xa wrote

Yeah I stopped inspecting my physique after every gym session and instead only properly analysing it (which is necessary) every month or so. Now I actually see my progress with my own eyes and it makes it a lot easier for me to tell which muscles have & haven’t grown so I can mess with my routine if needed

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Relative-Performer40 OP t1_j60bubv wrote

In such a case... (i am assuming you are elder to me) how to deal with parents... I live where people(including my parents) dont really care much about our mental health... I tried talking to my parents they just said take like 5 minutes break and then go back to studying.... everytime i try to do something else, they basically end up saying go back to studies

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PocketOppossum OP t1_j608a8o wrote

That is so funny! I worked for a larger organization that hosted a yearly fund raiser called "the big grape". We had an E-mail chain get started by a female manager to talk about the event, but they missed a "G" in their subject line in the E-mail. For the next month we were all making jokes about the "bi grape." You can imagine where it went from there with kitchen staff.

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Swedenesebishhh69 t1_j606mex wrote

You need to try something new then. Step outside your box. Try a sport or a hobby. Whether its biking, photography, gaming. running, making music. learning instruments, cooking.... Volunteer some time it might make you appreciate your life more. You could take a career assessment test to see what your personality says are good careers( it might be interesting). Trust me, we all go through moments in life that are blah.

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shrike2214 OP t1_j6051hx wrote

Man yeah! I dropped something around 45lb and I still felt like I was overweight, found a shirt from 2019 and I could wrap it round myself. Its odd the things you don't notice because it's gradual. Same with mental health!

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Relative-Performer40 OP t1_j603wen wrote

I get that! but like i said in the very beginning it isnt about them anymore.... I have shifted schools and hav got new friend... But thats it, I just dont feel anything about them.. its just i say they are my friend because i sit with them in the class... same way its just i dont feel anything off of anything anymore... its just that i am studying because the teacher says so, i have no idea what my goal is

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