Recent comments in /f/tifu

thisisdrivingmebatty t1_j60ttly wrote

How much are they charging for the silver u/Judedadude998? Your first step is to have the pawn shop owner set them aside, second step is to put down a deposit so they know you're serious (get a written receipt for proof of this). I'm willing to contribute for the deposit so you can get your precious memories back. Once you turn 18, cut them out and never look back. They see you as nothing more than a paycheck.

Also I highly recommend considering reporting the coins as stolen to the police. They may or may not be able to help you recover the coins, but having the paper trail will help you when you go to leave and they try to keep you under their thumb. You gave them the coins under the assumption you would get them back; them not doing so makes this theft.

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HopOnTheHype t1_j60t5qk wrote

Honestly at this point you’re just defending narcissistic manipulation by an abuser and conflating it equally to her being uncomfy about him doing the polyamory openly in front of her, which is stupid. At this point he could beat her, And you’d conflate it to her being upset about it, and say she’s being a professional victim. You’re just sus lol

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FiliaMortis t1_j60syss wrote

They’re just going to keep using him as a paycheck anyway, according to OP’s other comments. He’s not allowed by his parents to get a job since they use him for social security income, and I bet you anything that they’re going to destroy his credit by opening cards under his name.

There’s no ideal solution here, either he bears with the abuse (which this absolutely is) until he’s a legal adult or he starts standing up for himself.

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cosmernaut420 t1_j60srry wrote

You're born to blood, nobody picks blood. You do choose your own family though, I firmly believe that. Those assholes calling themselves your parents may be blood, but family doesn't do each other like that.

I hope you get out soon, good luck OP.

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ExoticButters79 t1_j60sokf wrote

Lmfao no kiddo. I'm not even defending what either of them did. In my original response to this I called them both out for what they are and have done. I am simply pointing out your overreaction. Which is exactly what you are doing. You are a career victim. Stop finding victims hood in everything.

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SandPractical8245 t1_j60sl2a wrote

Unfortunately from a legal standpoint, this would be a civil case. He willingly gave the coins to his parents, even if it was under false pretenses. So for example, if I ask to borrow your car to go around the block and get permission, but really I drive to the next town over, you can't report the car stolen. I have the keys, and gained possession legally. That removes it from police hands, and moves it into courts jurisdiction.

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