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Fl45hb4c t1_j6114m4 wrote

Here's a thought for ya OP, why not try to get your hands on a couple of dollars (don't need much), and go to the pawnshop with a picture of your parents. Ask if they can show you the items your parents brought in (show them the picture and be like "these people") and ask for one little piece of it just as a souvenir?

You can eventually build another collection, but having the starting piece he from you and your grandpa... That will be the perfect way to start!

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Boxofcookies1001 t1_j61073i wrote

It sucks that you have shitty parents but consider this a lesson on relationships with individuals with poor money management.

I'm sure this won't be the first time or the last time your parents will try to take advantage of you and your things to make up for their poor ability to manage money.

I'd encourage you to call the credit bureaus (if in America) and put a freeze/block on opening new loans.

And remember that if someone is asking you to co-sign/pawn stuff/ open a joint account/ take financial responsibility for them, ask yourself what poor money decision has lead to them getting into this situation in the first place and are you willing to accept the consequences when things don't go as planned.

Source (I have parents with a low ability to be financially responsible).

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Swedenesebishhh69 t1_j60y52x wrote

im sorry life has become so unexciting. I think you should start planning an after graduation trip. Start requesting donations from your parents or grandparents. Start looking up locations, prices, things to do while your there. If even for 30 min every other day it will give you something to plan and look forward to.

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Lumpy-Ad-3201 t1_j60y483 wrote

Hexahydrocannabinol, which is synthetically produced as a result of hydrogenating cannabis extracts. It is psychoactive and produces a high, but is typically considered 50-70% less potent than traditional delta-9 THC. As a different cannabinoid, it produces a different kind of high than delta-9 THC as well.

The issue you have isn't that you took HHC per se, but you took it with another caanibinoid. This creates a sympathetic uptake. The endocanniboid sytem experiences an increased reaction due to the interaction of multiple cannabinoids binding to it, referred to as the Entourage Effect. This can result in the perception of intoxication being amplified hugely. This is similar to how your brain reacts to seratonin in the presence of SSRI antidepressants.

It sounds to me like you are experiencing symptoms of having a dosage that is far too high for your tolerance level. If you continue to try using it. I would recommend starting with delta-8 or HHC and sticking to gummies. Check the packaging to determine the amount of cannabinoid in each gummy. Normal amounts are 25-50mg for standard doses. Cut the gummy down to a quarter of total (literally cut it into 4 equal parts). Take one quarter close to when you eat, and wait an hour to determine the effects.

That low of a dose should never negatively effect anyone, maybe give a slight feeling of haziness and relaxation. If you have bad symptoms from that dose, you need to either stop consuming entirely, see a doctor, or both. If you do ok, you can take another quarter (or eighth) and again, wait an hour. Vaping is risky, because it could easily be a dab, a blended dab, or high concentration solution. Inhalation is also the fastest way to get it to your brain, smoking and dabbing being fastest, so judging the dose is very hard for a newb.

Do a little research and get educated on what these products are and how the work and affect you. This isn't a lethal drug, but it can fuck up your world profoundly if you approach it from ignorance or improperly consume. Please misbehave responsibly.

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to0ties t1_j60xlho wrote

Am I correctly understanding that you creeped a person out by repeatedly asking them to take their socks off, and then were so distraught by their rejection that you bashed your head into the tile floor of an AirBnB and considering jumping off a railing? Dude...get help, please. You do not seem well.

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Colton_Omega t1_j60x8ds wrote

The difficult part is you are 16. If it means that much to you and your parents are being completely disregarding of your feelings and the mistake they made maybe report them as stolen if they police say you can (it’s dishonest, but they were too) or see if you have a civil case against your parents at the very least. I would urge you to never give your parents a cent of anything again until you are either 18 or move out.

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BowzersMom t1_j60x6fd wrote

Lol. If you took my car to the next town over and I called the cops to report it as stolen, if they find you before you return the car the they will treat it as stolen and arrest you, and you will have to use my limited permission as a criminal defense. I’m that case, you’d better be VERY credible when explaining to the judge or jury that you really were going to return it, I was just too hasty!

However, if you returned it and then I found out you drove it further than intended and I then reported to police that you stole my car, they’d look in my driveway and say “that car? But it’s right here. Stop wasting our time.” But I’d still have the option to sue you at the current mileage rate, though it wouldn’t be worth it.

I’m not sure how the legal principals around a minor giving his parents his valuables to pawn shakes out. In reality it is very stupid to give someone something to pawn and expecting it back. But we’ve got a 16 year old kid trusting his parents and wanting to help them out. They’re clearly lowlifes for doing this.

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SandPractical8245 t1_j60wqiy wrote

You're absolutely right! In the states where theft by deception is chargeable, there would still be a gray area because of the intention of pawning vs selling. Op admitted in their post that they knew their parents would not ever get the items out of pawn, which means they knew there was a risk of losing it overall either way. I am in no way sticking up for the parents, just stating what case an attorney may be able to make in regards to that specific charge.

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