Recent comments in /f/tifu

WonderfulGarage7944 t1_j61jvl0 wrote

I would tell them they’re absolutely right and that you totally misread the tone. I’d say I genuinely DONT have a foot thing and would have dropped it immediately if I had accurately assessed that tone. I’d say I understand if they don’t want to talk to me again, but that my friends are important to me and I’d hate to lose one of few over a bad joke. I’d tell them I guess I didn’t know them like that well enough to push those buttons and would definitely not have had I realized the actual situation. Basically I’d just stress I misread my audience and went down the full joke path. If they seemed open to discussing it or considered your apology, I might add that after the fact I remembered the ridiculous posts about feet I had made some time ago and facepalmed when I realized how that must have looked in retrospect. The ball is ultimately in their court, best you can do is be honest, but this will leave you vulnerable. The way I’d look at it, is I’d rather just put everything on the table and not wonder what I could have done to save it later.

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gonzoes t1_j61h3zl wrote

Yeah i read it but that is utterly ridiculous to call him an abuser manipulator for walking the girl our in front of his significant other. Its not like he made her watch them have sex in the same room. You’re acting like he physically forced her to watch them which is not the case he made a bad judgment to help her realize how he felt

Even though She didn’t do it where he could see it’s obvious to tell that even her going to leave the house affected him just as badly as it affected her thank you locked her out of the house

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LexLuthorsHairPiece t1_j61d5jk wrote

Was on a grand jury with a very similar case. The DA more or less said after hearing testimony from the minor in question and the police officer who filed the report that they didn't have a legal leg* to stand on since the plaintiff agreed.to giving the items to his guardian (s).

*Edited to add leg.

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