Recent comments in /f/tifu

PM-me-fancy-beer t1_j61ufj7 wrote

Oooooh. At least you didn't comment on her losing width around the breasts or butt. I had an ex who helpfully commented "you're definitely losing weight, your top's looser." Yeah man, because the first thing to go is always my boobs. I'd go from pear to triangle

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PM-me-fancy-beer t1_j61tytx wrote

These seem like cool expressions if they were applied to a masculine person, but if I heard those I'd feel insulted. I think they come from a time when being thicc was not a good thing. You don't want to be seen to be strong, muscular or curvy when the 'ideal' is a beanpole

(That said, I have always had thunder thighs and I still see it as a negative expression, but use it as a term of endearment now for mine)

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twohedwlf t1_j61td95 wrote

Depending on the laws of wherever you are that could legally be theft and you could report it to the police. It sounds like, however, you DID give it to them. That they sold rather than pawned it doesn't make it theft. It's probably a civil matter and you'd need to take them to your local disputes tribunal/small claims court or similar.

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thisisdrivingmebatty t1_j61sigy wrote

Ok, but even if things ARE truly that desperate, that's the parents' responsibility to manage, not a 16 year old kid. If they didn't want to further endanger their finances they shouldn't have committed a crime, which is what they've done. If anyone has a ridiculous thought process here, it's you thinking that anyone but the parents are at fault here.

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734shottie t1_j61mrkr wrote

Thats her problem.... its called self esteem for a reason bro. Its esteem of yourself. How else could you be honest and say communication is key. Tell me i lost a chin ill buy you a steak dinner lol

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HopOnTheHype t1_j61m9mz wrote

He literally hired an escort to parade her in front of her ex to make her jealous so that she would comply to his demands, and broke their good faith polyamory by doing it openly while the girlfriend was keeping it discreet for his sake. He got insecure and manipulated her by hiring an escort to make her feel bad. Homie you defending this sus shit is just you going mask off, Just say you relate with the abuser and would do something psychopathic like that. Even his own version of the story Made him look like an abuser, can’t even imagine what else he puts her through. This isn’t an uwu little thing, this is full psychological abuse.

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