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WiltedEnthusiasm t1_j632kuf wrote

Oh man, that sucks. Try not to be too hard on yourself though, no doubt you were feeling vulnerable and yeah - everyone loves a bit of positive attention. You’re human. Clean up your socials privacy settings, ready yourself and your ego for some awkward conversations, and try to remember this too shall pass. Try to stay circumspect and it won’t be long before you’re telling the story as a cautionary tale to some friends.

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Measurement-Shoddy t1_j6326rh wrote

You should notify the police of what happened and see if there is anything they can do...yes the damage has been done by then sending the photos to your contacts, but these people need stopping before they move on to the next victim

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TahoeMoon t1_j6316lr wrote

Please talk to a school counselor, trusted teacher or administrator about this, not only did they steal your property but they are also stealing your social security money. That is fraud and you should be able to get a job if you want to, even if that means getting less money from social security.
You may also contact the Social Security Administration and ask about your rights as a minor and see when you can have the payment for yourself instead of having your parents intercept it.

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Roq456 t1_j62zcu8 wrote

Wow, Just wow, your familie sucks. I guess you should prepare to leave them as soon as you can in a few years and then never look back. You deserve better people around you, and I am sure those will cross your path later on.

Fuck these people that pretend to be your family, please stand upright and never drop the faith in yourself, you are so much more beautiful then them. You will survive, you will become everything they are not, your real life will start once you drop these people, you WILL thrive and you WILL blossom, never loose track of yourself. You are beautiful.

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nonrebreather t1_j62ybt0 wrote

First off, happy birthday! You're going to have many more, and some of the most special ones will be spent with people who aren't your family.

There's nothing that justifies their behaviour, and it's not your fault for expecting the minimum you'd do in their place. I hope you know that every normal person can tell how wrong what they did was. You do deserve better, and some day you will have better.

You're allowed to feel bad about this, but please don't feel like this has anything to do with who you are.

It sounds like you've been doing really well for yourself. Be proud of that, recognize your accomplishments, and keep doing well for yourself. <3

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Cortina_Mk_3 t1_j62xpu0 wrote

You're not the one who fucked up G, it was your fucking family! If your sister was at least a half decent she would've stuck up for you and if your parents had even the slightest resemblance of decency in them, they'd have allowed you to enjoy your birthday the way you want!

I hope that you can make your way in life without relying on your family, they don't deserve you and you're gonna surpass everyone, even your 'golden child' sister, use things like this to power and motivate you, show them up, make them feel shitty for not being better and do incredible!

Best of luck and remember, you are worth it, your family isn't!

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