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lpbale0 t1_j63fjby wrote

Post whatever info you get and maybe some other people in this thread can pitch in some.

OP, if you know where they sold them off, try talking to the person that owns the place and see what they can do; maybe they can put them aside and not resell them until you can buy them back, but you never know, maybe they would be inclined to sell them back cheaper or even return them outright.

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YeYa_3 t1_j63e8qt wrote

I am so sorry you are going through this, you did NOTHING wrong, it’s them being evil and projecting their insecurities on you. From the bottom of my heart HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you ❤️❤️ We may not know each other but I truly wish you the best, and you know what the best revenge is? Showing people who wronged you that you are better off without them and don’t need their help or pity. Carve your best life and cut off your “family” as soon as you can, you will feel so much better without their toxicity. And trust me, you will find your people who will truly love and support you for who you are. Until then, stay strong and take care <3

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Verbenaplant t1_j63d5z7 wrote

There is nothing wrong with you. Having extra weight on you doesn’t make you less worthy of basic respect and love. Work hard at school, get a great job and have a great life. I’m sure your parents will want you to help them when they are old and you can tell them to just ask the fav child lol

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Eldhannas t1_j63crpm wrote

I lost about 10 kgs while working from home in the beginning of the pandemic. Didn't see much difference except on the scale. Went back to the office, and ngl, one guy commenting on my weight loss really made my day. Sadly the kg have sneaked back while I wasn't looking...

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Fluffy-Eyeball t1_j63crng wrote

Happy birthday OP. Even though in reality it wasn’t, I hope these Birthday wishes from internet strangers make you feel at least a little loved by all of us. I’m sorry you’re being treated like that by your family of all people.

Don’t allow yourself to feel fat shamed, please. It’s your own opinion that matters. If you want to change, then safely do so, if you don’t then all is well, no one else’s opinion matters in reality. I guarantee you most others won’t think the same as your family too.

I promise you things will get better. As soon as you’re old enough, leave their horrible company and make yourself happy with people who love you in person and treat you well, and find what makes you happy and do it.

Wishing you many more happier birthdays for the future OP, things will get better.

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nahnabanahna_ t1_j63ckht wrote

Happy late birthday, kiddo!! You deserve all the cake in the world! You are a wonderful human being despite what any of your family tells you and fifteen years of you on this Earth is worth a huge celebration.

I’m so, so sorry your family failed you like this. You don’t deserve any of this crap they’re putting you through—you deserve love and hugs and all sorts of lovely things. You’re so strong for still being here. I’m so proud of you. Remember, the best part of being an adult is that you can buy whatever kind of cake you want for your birthday, so make sure you stick around until then, okay? You’ve got this! My messages are open if you ever need to vent. Again, happy birthday hon. You’re amazing ☺️❤️

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CitizenLuke117 t1_j63c5ng wrote

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BEAUTIFUL!!!!

You didn't fuck up. Your family is fucking up. Sorry.

As an adult I learned that I need to take care of myself on my birthdays. Nobody is going to do it for me. I get my own cake, my own gift, and do what I want to do.

If someone I love surprises me with a cake or a meal or a gift then it feels amazing and I show them my gratitude. But I've learned not to expect it.

It's not fair that you have to do this at 15. But apparently you do because your family has growing up to do.

You are fine, OP. You're not the crazy one here. Love yourself. Take care of yourself. And learn to love and eventually forgive them. Take your time with that but the sooner you release your anger at them the sooner you free yourself from it and are able to move on and live your own life and your own story.

Stay strong. Stay loving. You are worth it.

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Eldhannas t1_j63b9za wrote

What kind of horrendous parents do this? I can maybe accept that two people born on the same day may want to separate their celebrations, but having the celebration of one of twins two entire weeks before the other is quite simply hard to understand. It's like they go out of their way to put a wedge in your relationship, like they don't want you to see each other as the closest siblings possible. Not to mention the extreme difference in how you're treated. What does your grandparents think of this, do they know?

Your parents will live to regret this, when you leave them in the dust behind you.

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