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wondrous t1_j63f4zk wrote
Reply to comment by LadyBug_0570 in TIFU by making vulgar comment to my boss while he was in meeting. by PocketOppossum
Absolute legend
Reelplayer t1_j63f3yq wrote
Reply to comment by Measurement-Shoddy in TIFU by sexting a stranger by wyldstalyn6
A good police officer is one who would wait to start laughing until after they hung up on you. There is nothing they will do for something as petty as this.
Kcnflman t1_j63erlr wrote
They eat everything in China
cynthea12 t1_j63eqg0 wrote
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
Coming from someone whose family sucked when I was growing up, I'm so sorry.
elizabethjanet t1_j63ek21 wrote
You didn’t F up, they did. They are treating you poorly and you need an ally or advocate. Please start looking for one, either in your family or at school.
YeYa_3 t1_j63e8qt wrote
I am so sorry you are going through this, you did NOTHING wrong, it’s them being evil and projecting their insecurities on you. From the bottom of my heart HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you ❤️❤️ We may not know each other but I truly wish you the best, and you know what the best revenge is? Showing people who wronged you that you are better off without them and don’t need their help or pity. Carve your best life and cut off your “family” as soon as you can, you will feel so much better without their toxicity. And trust me, you will find your people who will truly love and support you for who you are. Until then, stay strong and take care <3
EnzieWithSomeNumbers t1_j63e7ox wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU by expecting to have a birthday cake from my family by [deleted]
talk to them about how serious it is...you might be better off putting yourself into foster care with the help of your counselor
Reddit-username_here t1_j63e5no wrote
The answer is yes.
FlyGuy_2000 t1_j63e2m1 wrote
Reply to TIFU by trying to encourage my wife by shrike2214
Should have added "well, hopefully the other 3 chins won't miss it too badly."
pmmeyourphotography t1_j63dzah wrote
Reply to comment by parksandrecpup in TIFU by expecting to have a birthday cake from my family by [deleted]
Her twin sucks. I feel so bad for op.
TheQuietGrrrl t1_j63dpc0 wrote
One day your family is s going to wonder why you don’t talk to them anymore, and you’re going to be so free and happy.
Verbenaplant t1_j63d5z7 wrote
There is nothing wrong with you. Having extra weight on you doesn’t make you less worthy of basic respect and love. Work hard at school, get a great job and have a great life. I’m sure your parents will want you to help them when they are old and you can tell them to just ask the fav child lol
Verbenaplant t1_j63czxn wrote
I can’t believe they called you selfish for wanting a birthday. You are a child. They have a duty of care to treat you both equally so the family is balanced.
P41N4U t1_j63cug3 wrote
You have a terrible family, dont know if you have someone sticking for you, hope you have.
You parents are terrible, keep going, you are doing great! Happy birthday!
Verbenaplant t1_j63cuen wrote
your a twin. And still a child. You should be treated fairly. Do you have any other family you can talk to about this. Cake is for sharing. Also doesn’t your sister see this as weird?
Eldhannas t1_j63crpm wrote
Reply to comment by md724 in TIFU by trying to encourage my wife by shrike2214
I lost about 10 kgs while working from home in the beginning of the pandemic. Didn't see much difference except on the scale. Went back to the office, and ngl, one guy commenting on my weight loss really made my day. Sadly the kg have sneaked back while I wasn't looking...
Fluffy-Eyeball t1_j63crng wrote
Happy birthday OP. Even though in reality it wasn’t, I hope these Birthday wishes from internet strangers make you feel at least a little loved by all of us. I’m sorry you’re being treated like that by your family of all people.
Don’t allow yourself to feel fat shamed, please. It’s your own opinion that matters. If you want to change, then safely do so, if you don’t then all is well, no one else’s opinion matters in reality. I guarantee you most others won’t think the same as your family too.
I promise you things will get better. As soon as you’re old enough, leave their horrible company and make yourself happy with people who love you in person and treat you well, and find what makes you happy and do it.
Wishing you many more happier birthdays for the future OP, things will get better.
nahnabanahna_ t1_j63ckht wrote
Happy late birthday, kiddo!! You deserve all the cake in the world! You are a wonderful human being despite what any of your family tells you and fifteen years of you on this Earth is worth a huge celebration.
I’m so, so sorry your family failed you like this. You don’t deserve any of this crap they’re putting you through—you deserve love and hugs and all sorts of lovely things. You’re so strong for still being here. I’m so proud of you. Remember, the best part of being an adult is that you can buy whatever kind of cake you want for your birthday, so make sure you stick around until then, okay? You’ve got this! My messages are open if you ever need to vent. Again, happy birthday hon. You’re amazing ☺️❤️
SpecialpOps t1_j63cjz3 wrote
Is absolutely horrible. Your Parents are terrible people and your sister is too for not sticking up for you.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!🎂🎉
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CitizenLuke117 t1_j63c5ng wrote
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BEAUTIFUL!!!!
You didn't fuck up. Your family is fucking up. Sorry.
As an adult I learned that I need to take care of myself on my birthdays. Nobody is going to do it for me. I get my own cake, my own gift, and do what I want to do.
If someone I love surprises me with a cake or a meal or a gift then it feels amazing and I show them my gratitude. But I've learned not to expect it.
It's not fair that you have to do this at 15. But apparently you do because your family has growing up to do.
You are fine, OP. You're not the crazy one here. Love yourself. Take care of yourself. And learn to love and eventually forgive them. Take your time with that but the sooner you release your anger at them the sooner you free yourself from it and are able to move on and live your own life and your own story.
Stay strong. Stay loving. You are worth it.
ohonagang t1_j63bx93 wrote
Happy birthday day lovely you deserve the world and one day you will have those around you who will give it to you sending best wishes ❤️
Noodlepotdreams t1_j63blb2 wrote
Happy belated birthday <3 your family sucks. I‘m so sorry for you. I would go zero contact once you move out. You don’t need such negativity in your life. That’s awful.
Eldhannas t1_j63b9za wrote
What kind of horrendous parents do this? I can maybe accept that two people born on the same day may want to separate their celebrations, but having the celebration of one of twins two entire weeks before the other is quite simply hard to understand. It's like they go out of their way to put a wedge in your relationship, like they don't want you to see each other as the closest siblings possible. Not to mention the extreme difference in how you're treated. What does your grandparents think of this, do they know?
Your parents will live to regret this, when you leave them in the dust behind you.
lpbale0 t1_j63fjby wrote
Reply to comment by JustinIsFunny in TIFU by letting my parents lie and convince me to pawn the coin collection me and my dead grandpa made by [deleted]
Post whatever info you get and maybe some other people in this thread can pitch in some.
OP, if you know where they sold them off, try talking to the person that owns the place and see what they can do; maybe they can put them aside and not resell them until you can buy them back, but you never know, maybe they would be inclined to sell them back cheaper or even return them outright.