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MrFavorable t1_j63n9n2 wrote

Dear lord this is absolutely awful. I want to tell you that you in no way fucked up. It is your parents that are fucking up and failing you. You said that you’re 15 and I want you to realize that 18 will get here much quicker than you think it will. I think you should start planning how you’re going to leave your parents behind and I believe you should consider going low contact or no contact once you leave for college, move out to be on your own. I don’t know if you have a support group such as grandparents or a friend whose family you consider like a second family. But i believe you should reach out to someone if you do have that support. Your parents are extremely toxic towards you and the fact they dump all of this money on your sister but cannot spend $20 on you for hair clips is outrageous. Stay strong u/Birthdaycake32 you can make it!

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zilnosnibor t1_j63ly2b wrote

Was it a full body nude shot or just a🍆 pic? You can always claim the Shaggy defense, "It wasn't me." 😂 Lesson learned, let's all rock out with our 🐓 out, right?

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[deleted] OP t1_j63llgp wrote

That's really rough, if you can, try to surround yourself with good caring people who value you and remember that what your family says has more to do with their own flaws. Be your own best friend and try not to internalise what they say. Instead say internally 'oh it's interesting you say that and that's your opinion' you don't have to take ownership of their thoughts if they are negative towards you.

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compaqdeskpro t1_j63l4li wrote

Did all your friends say "Ha! Look! I got a nude pic! That must mean he tried to get laid and got scammed! OP is a degenerate! Get him fired from everything!" If they are smart and care about you, they would say "at least you didn't lose your $500".

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annswertwin t1_j63joys wrote

Yea I’m an ER Nurse. This sounds a lot like the stories that end with a foreign body removal from someones rectum. One poor pt. had locked himself out of his apt., so he had to climb in his kitchen window, and he fell onto a ketchup bottle that happened to be on the kitchen floor wearing a condom and he happened to not be wearing pants or underwear. What an unlucky day s/.

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CanNeverRememberDis t1_j63ghbi wrote

This is a fairly common scam. Don't beat yourself, as you are far from the first or last to be a victim.

Once you send those pics, it's on the scammer as to whether they actually share them or not. The fact they sent them just speaks volumes of what a shit person they really are.

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