Note to self, don't sext someone you haven't met or haven't talked to by voice to for a long while.

Sorry your parents hate you

Did you think about them at all before you sent your pictures?

Not sure, my sister called me, angry that someone could be this cruel, nobody else has mentioned it

You did nothing wrong, it would definitely be good to talk to your counselor, these kinds of comments are never good to hear especially with what you have been through mental health wise. From what I can tell you are not a selfish person or a brat, your parents however are selfish and emotionally abusive.

In some ways I understand even though I was my mom's first I always played second fiddle to her life and when she finally had a daughter she put everything into her while claiming she was not able to afford the one gift I would ask her for on my birthday.

For real?

Hey sister scrolling through Reddit just wanted to say I think you are a complete loser piece of shit and I hope you realize what a horrible mistake you are making acting this way towards your sister and abusing her. You family are a bunch of loser assholes and you deserve so much better OP. If you have anyone else in the extended family to reach out to I would find a way to get out of there ASAP.

TO OP - HAPPY BIRTHDAY YOU BEAUTIFUL GIRL!!!!!

Possibly, I can’t remember any instances off the top of my head but it seems familiar thinking about it

How did the people that received them react?

Just adding congrats on the weight loss. I held a near constant weight (slightly under weight) from late high school to my early 30's. Then I started working out of hotels, which meant eating from restaurants and fast food almost every meal. I put on nearly 40 pounds. It triggered snoring, sleep apnea, and I think heart burn in me, so I decided to lose weight for the first time in my life.

It was hard, with seemingly no progress for the first 2-3 weeks. And then only slowly dropping down. So it's very impressive to me that you've managed that while have issues that make it even tougher.

In all honesty I guess I should’ve known better in today’s world but I was not in a good head space.

Face and all 🙃

Nobody has mentioned anything except my sister who was livid that some scum bag is doing this

I wish you a happy birthday and hope the best will happen to you, you deserve to be loved. ❤️

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i can't even imagine doing this to my twins. im sorry you have to feel this way.

Not only do you deserve a cake, you deserve a new family. This is fucked.

Can I ask if you have ever read stories of other people getting stug like this?

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Be supportive in some way? Maybe tell her parents it's fucked up that she got a real birthday party and her literal twin sister got nothing but insults for her birthday?

"TIFU by making a weird joke that everyone laughed at and nothing actually got FU."

This is awful. Your family are awful! Another commenter said set up an Amazon wish list. How can we make your birthday special?

She's also a child, what do you want her to do?

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Sheeesh, if this actually happened I feel so bad for you… What a world we live in