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vreemdmeisje t1_j64bmm7 wrote

Happy birthday sweetheart. 15 is a wonderfull age! I am so sorry your parents are so evil. If you can buy a cake for yourself and share it with people who do see the real you. They do not get to ruin your day. Wish i could hug you. Believe in yourself, you sound like the best part of your family.

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Akairichii t1_j64apxy wrote

I imagine it's been a while... Sexting that is.

Just remember:

  1. No exchange of social media that is tied to family or friends. You know... "burn accounts."
  2. No identifying features in photos especially with strangers.
  3. Scammers prey on the lonely or gullible. If it sounds too good to be true, it is.
  4. Keep your intentions clear with yourself. If you are going for fun with a stranger, make extra steps to protect yourself or identity. If you're going for a relationship, take your time to get to know them first... Preferably in public spaces.
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RonamusMaximus t1_j647yzx wrote

Wrong sub. Today, you did not fuck up.

Today, you unfortunately learned to grow up too fast. Because today, you realized your parents fucked up a long time ago. To paraphrase my father, we learn from both good and bad people, good people teach us how to replicate good, and bad people teach us how not to be bad people.

Happy Birthday, kid. Thank you for making this old man get all teary eyed at work.

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Poosley_ t1_j646x6i wrote

So, I don't wanna put in a whole life story, but for what it's worth, it really can get better. Your life, not your parents. Although with enough time, anything is possible. Both of my parents are bad people, and they made life incredibly difficult for me. Moving out was one of the best things I ever did. Got a job, some independence. It's easy to feel trapped right now but the quicker you can emotionally move on from being attached to their goodwill, the better. Think of it more as a necessary business association / transaction. You'll get out of this. Life on your own can be just as challenging but also rewarding and good, too. Unlike your current circumstances

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marz_shadow t1_j646anb wrote

Go on Amazon and just look around and instead of adding it to your cart you can create a wish list that’s public then once your done with that. Use the share button copy the link and paste it here! Would love to get your a birthday present. Sorry your family sucks. A lot of people say family over friends but the people you meet over your lifetime who care about you are just as much family as blood.

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jataman96 t1_j645gb5 wrote

You're not the one who fucked up. You are not selfish for wanting a birthday. I wish I could send you all the hair clips you could ever want and more. This just breaks my heart.

Your parents are bad people. There's no way around it. The way they treat you is entirely abusive. And shame on your sister for not standing up for you.

Let us on reddit wish you a happy birthday 🎂 You deserve so much more than this. So if your family is too shitty to celebrate you, then we will celebrate you here.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂 🥳 🎉 YOU MATTER AND ARE IMPORTANT 💗💗💗 Everyone who reads this is rooting for you!

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