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RandyButternubsYo t1_j65jc58 wrote

Holy shit. Your whole family is beyond fucked up. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope that you finally get to live a life of freedom as soon as you’re 18 and make a new chosen family for yourself.

You’re important, you’re worthwhile and you deserve love. Just make it through the next few years, you can do it

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sallesjuli t1_j65iq4q wrote

You don't sound like a good employee. You were there for ten years and never tried to make things better or had ideas or good relationships with superiors? And then once this new boss came, you went to her with all of your problems looking for spoon-fed answers and not doing any of the critical thinking yourself. You then get the one person who helped you fired claiming you didn't know that's how things worked, when you are the one that has worked there 10+ years. And now you are surprised at being asked to come up with some solutions and not just "venting" aka complaining all the time. It sounds like you have been at this company waaaay too long to still not have any idea what you're doing or how to do it.

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Mds_02 t1_j65imgg wrote

At best, you are extremely naive. The lesson to take from this is that your superiors at work are never on your side. If you find one that is, they are a unicorn. You shot the unicorn. The new boss is so hard on you because he knows what you did, and is trying to get you out before you can do it again.

Unless you want your colleagues to be fired, the only thing you ever say about them to the higher-ups is that their professionalism makes them a joy to work with and that they are indispensable to the company.

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forvelcrobug t1_j65i3ze wrote

She sounded like s great boss.

Tho with how people try to twist things in their favour.

Like op trying with all the "I thought he would help her"

It wouldn't surprise me if op went behind her back, thinking the boss would promote him a little higher in the corporate ladder.

This then backfired when he took the position himself before finding someone outside the company, now OP is in trouble and feels bad for what he did.

Op deserve all this shit.

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