So you can't just use your underwear to wipe and throw away? (Or wash and use again)

you forgot. Is there sand paper anywhere in the house?

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In dire circumstances your hand will do and you can wash it all off.

You sit there for 30min ?!?

I'm quite sure, lower quality in these cases would help out.

Any sponges or wash rags you can throw away without anyone noticing like get a ziplock bag after your done and find a dumpster somewhere to dispose of the evidence.

I’m in the half bath. But that would be a solid choice if i was in a full bath.

Well that could very well be the case, but as the one experiencing the problem you may be the most qualified one to find the answer as you’re the most familiar with it.

I would at least make it a habit that when you bring up a problem that’s going on, you communicate that you’ve thought up a couple solutions but they may not work. At least then your boss will validate your “not so great” solution and if any more problems stem from it, you were just following orders.

It’s a little cliché but I’ve always like the quote “The challenges you face today prepare you for the challenges you’ll face tomorrow.”

Every problem isn’t going to have the same solution, but sometimes solutions you’ve learned from other problems can help you out.

It sounds like you’re at a sink or swim moment in your career. Don’t let new boss watch you drown, get in there and show him you can do it.

The same thing happened to me and my gf, but my mom just got furious and tried to humiliate us, wich worked for her as my gf never ever wanted to touch me in my room again.

What's your shower situation can you rinse yourself off super quick if not your going to have to get your hands dirty.

• Where is the nearest box of tissues?
• Do you have any paper napkins around from take out food?
• Where is the nearest roll of paper towels? (Don't flush those)
• Do you have 2 seashells?

Not entirely sure I'd chalk that up to a TIFU...Considering the subject matter, that was pretty wholesome...lol

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I'll be your new parent if you want a new one. Your family sucks. You deserve to be treated with love and respect. Get your education and get some money saved and run away from this family and don't look back. I feel for you

I have the feeling that this TIFU is more about self-pity regarding the tricky position you've put yourself in, rathan than feeling remorse because you got your former boss fired.

Whatever happens next, learn this word and understand its implications: loyalty

Depends on your workplace and relationship with your boss. I used to work in manager/director positions, and I never fired anyone based on peer feedback - that’s very poor management policy.

Managers should evaluate and review employees under their supervision, and directors should do the same for managers. No sane director would fire a manager over a single employee complaint.

As a property manager of a storage facility, we have automated systems that call and leave messages on phone, text, and e-mail every day,”and at least personally call once a week, for all tenants who are not current with their bill. A unit goes to auction after three months of nonpayment. With all of that, we still have auctions every month constantly. Why I bring this up, is the simple fact that a-lot of people want to be mad at the storage facility for selling their stuff, and don’t take responsibility for their own actions. OP I’m so sorry you are dealing with this depression that kept you from facing life’s responsibilities, but good for you for remembering that it was your tifu and not trying to advert blame. It shows good character, and with that mentality you can bounce back and make sure you never make a mistake like this again!

Please go to r/raisedbynarcissists to see that you are not alone and it is not your fault. When you need kind words and virtual hugs r/momforaminute is here for you. Sorry about your horrible family on your birthday.

You probably should.

As I understand it, that is exactly what it has done for many a young man.

Welp, now you get to be the one who's tired, stressed out, and struggling with your job in question, kind of how your previous boss felt. Good job. Karma definitely took a nice pit stop with you.