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Oh goodness I hope so! I love this man so much. I’m scared because he’ll be graduating soon and we don’t know if we’ll get to stay in the same town :(

TIFU by reading this thread in detail rather than skipping to the TL;DR. I could have lived without the knowledge of someone being stabbed that gruesomely...

My relationship was just like that in the beginning too. It's been 12 years and it's still the same way between me and my wife 😊

You have a good start, keep it up and you'll be happy for the rest of your life, at least relationship-wise 🙂

Did you talk to your former boss about the issues prior to going above her to her boss?

You need to realize that she was your friend looked out for you was sick and also that management doesn't give a fuck about anyone. You are objects to them. She did what anyone who knows the struggle and cares about others would do in her position to make work better for those under her, it was probably hard and she dropped a bit of her effort while struggling with long COVID. But she sounds above any beyond anything you could ever reasonably expect. If you have a good boss it's not because they are just a "nice person" it's because they go out of their way to make things nice for people under them and they are rare. You may never see one again. So to make up for the other employees now facing a harsher regime the only thing you can do is be that person yourself and put forth extra effort for those under you and shield them as much as you can. Because now you know what it's like both ways. If you do that you've atoned as much as you can for the employees but there's not much you can do for her. You buried her, even if it wasn't intentional it was backstabby.

*The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Now you know, personally, what this means.

Spend your time at work finding a new job, this 'performance review' is your notification of termination.

You fcked yourself too, learn from it & move on.

Bro that’s what they want you to feel, you do deserve so much better. This is incredibly sad and disheartening, I hope that someday the people that will be in your life appreciate you.

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And you ruined a good workplace for everyone else including yourself my talking smack behind your bosses back to her boss. She was such a good sounding board and let you vent you said. You should have addressed this with her and told her how you felt. Instead you tried to get her in trouble by telling on her so your boss would clamp down and make her work harder. He did clamp down, and fired her. You really blew a good thing, just learn from your mistake. Good managers are 1 in a 100 and most are slave driving slaves themselves to get brownie points with the plantation master. Your mistake took away the support she was providing. That really sucks, learn from this and don't make the same mistake again. I don't feel bad for you at all, I feel bad for your old boss and the others who have to work there. This is a mistake of being sheltered and privileged. she understood the troubles of overworked underpaid employees and fought for them, you snitched. Management isn't going to reward you for it. Basically your class traitor and betrayed your boss/frien

If Keanu Reeves in the movie Parenthood taught me anything it’s that “that’s what little dudes do”.

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If you’re wearing socks, you have no issue….

You are a fucking moron. Boss should have fired your ass

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Shake it off and waddle, my dude.

>Until I worked for him, I thought he was a good boss, I don’t now.

Yeah, everyone's a good boss until you have to work for them.

Well then I stick by my first comment bro you suck

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That is so twisted. This is the kind of thing I would see in a psychological film. It's extra sad that the family got no clue that what they are doing is detrimental to your development. Or they are well aware and don't care.

Understand that you are beautiful and you do matter. Concentrate on you and your health. Stay humble and make the best of your life. Continue on working on your weight and keep you chin up as you walk. Walking with confident can be hard but it can be done. And Happy Birthday.

I'm so sorry, thank you for sharing, this is hilarious- reminds me of a playground rhyme

"If you're sitting on the bowl, and you dont have a roll, be a man, use your hand"

I....recommend finding literally anything else first, but that's just me lmao

Sure depending on how old you are and if this is your first job or not but you basically shit talked someone that had your back you probably should have extended the same courtesy and had their back in return

Got panties? They wash. Or could be thrown away. Btw, bidets are amazing and frequently you don't even need tp with a bidet.

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