It was a tech school so definitely a disproportionately high population of Reddit users. And people definitely saw because a friend told me they heard someone talk about it at a frat party. If this post somehow blows up I bet at least 1 person recognizes the story

Fair enough.

From your other comments it seems like he worked the late shift, which explains why he was asleep until that point. Were you also working during the first years of the kids life?

When I read the title I honestly wondered if we went to the same college... At the end of my first year, right around test times, a classmate disappeared for like 4 days.

Where was he? Turns out he was on acid and had 'escaped' his trip sitters, and fucked off into the woods around campus and just.... lived in nature for a few days.

I could’ve run into traffic or something. I think it was less that I was dangerous and more that they needed to get me in the ambulance and I was totally uncooperative

> So you wanted more work but for free from the same vet office you think did negligent work in the first place?

I wanted them to run the proper follow-up test for confirmation that they should have done. Rather than go to a new vet and spend nearly $1,000 I cannot afford to re-do the whole process.

Generally speaking, businesses try to do the right thing when they have done something wrong. Seeing if they will go that route.

Not sure how the logistics of a 1-2 month suspension would work, you’d be way behind in all classes. I didn’t hurt someone, but I could have definitely hurt myself. I could have run into traffic or jumped off a bridge, I was completely detached from reality

So you wanted more work but for free from the same vet office you think did negligent work in the first place?

If I found a worm in my burger at Wendy's, I wouldn't go back to demand another burger.

Hmmm..While you absolutely harbor some resentment there and it may in fact be true.

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This sounds a lot like "Call of the Void" or as some may say an "Intrusive Thought" you let slip past the gates.

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I'd say a simple apology and just that you were really upset at the time. Explain that he's a great father and you just took XX out on him. We try to be the best to our spouses but all of us just snap sometimes and say hurtful things we don't intend to.

The universe was telling you its oscillating. I got that one too.

Talk to him, don't dismiss your own feelings, but explain them to him.

“Imagine a mortar and pestle” had me dying in MY CAR!! 😂😂😂

Could be... Maybe I don't know enough about what acid does to you (never tried it or anything silimar), but as far as I'm aware it's not a drug that turns you violent or destructive in any real way. But yeah I guess it was enough to make the school staff/meds to get worried about others' safety.

As for public indecency, I know that the US has pretty harsh laws regarding public nudity, so perhaps it was their way of punishing him for that without actually evoking the specific charges given that OP was high af during that time.

Maybe. But again it’s been like 7 years. I was definitely more involved with our kid when they were a baby back then but he wasn’t nonexistent like I said he was. He was very much there but just not as involved with our child back then as he is now. He’s an incredible and very involved parent now which is great. I just feel like I shouldn’t have said it how I said it and it wasn’t really even relevant to what he was saying so I feel bad.

She practically raped you. You did nothing wrong.

I suppose that is true. He did change some diapers and he did feed our kid when they were a baby. But it was definitely mostly me. However my issue is that I shouldn’t have said it regardless. It was mostly unprovoked. I said it out of spite and anger for today and for mostly no reason. He didn’t directly say something offensive to me but I guess I took offense because he said he buys our son the best things but I took it as them saying I don’t provide for our kid too.

It could’ve been worse, you didn’t hurt yourself or anyone else. I know of someone who took acid and jumped to his death. Be careful and responsible!

I said it out of anger. And I wouldn’t say they’re justified. It’s been almost 7 years since the newborn phase. Our kid will be 7 soon. And for the past 4 years he’s been phenomenal. I shouldn’t have brought up the past. It wasn’t relevant to today. He works a third shift schedule so he usually sleeps during the day. I was just frustrated about it and felt alone

In my impressionable 'socialist youth' I went to work live on a Kibbutz, essentially a commie farm;turns out I hated it "the committee" so much I read Any Rand's "Atlas Shrugged" in one sitting.

You’re a good sport. :)

> He slept until 330pm and I was up since 730am with our rambunctious child trying to maintain the house while feeling sick and depressed.

>When our kid was a newborn it was all me though. It was me changing the diapers and me feeding throughout the night and me trying to keep up on everything with the kid and everything else

sounds like you were justified in your statements.

Glad you asked!

UPDATE: The stress on mt body triggered an early menstrual cycle. Now I'm in triple the pain!

Try thumbprinting.

A strong smell of turpentine prevails throughout

Anyone redditors remember seeing this guy on campus in New York in 2018?