Recent comments in /f/tifu

Affectionate-Gur2228 t1_j6ch3o7 wrote

300 is a very high dose and not safe to do on a campus.. If you take a higher dose, there won't be much of a difference because your brain can not squeeze out more neurotransmitters than it has stored. Taking more acid at a later point is not going to intensify the experience much. It will just drag it out to be longer. Immediately after taking the initial dose, the body builds a high tolerance that lasts 1-2 weeks. If you do what OP did, you set yourself up for a super long trip(at least 12 hours) that is not possible to control to begin with. Unless you are a shaman sitting in a tent in the middle of a jungle.

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DJ_Rand t1_j6cfdf0 wrote

Agree with you. Furthermore, if someone is happy about something they are doing and just passively saying it such as "I'm providing such awesome stuff for this kiddo." Or "man I've been working hard, it's paying off" never view that as an attack on yourself. Sometimes it's a simple as a person just thinking about what they are doing and being happy about it.

What you don't want to do is tear someone down for doing a good thing. You're better off supporting their decision to do a good thing. Do not take someone providing and doing hard work for granted. This is supposed to go both ways. Build each other up, don't tear each other down.

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WarXMT t1_j6cf81d wrote

I'm not sure if you're looking for someone on Reddit to excuse you. Here's my take on it. Even though the husband did all he could(or thought he could) you still wanted more. The kid tires you out because, you know, that's what kids do. This tiredness in turn is making you resent your husband, not because he doesn't or hasn't done enough, but because as a mother you have a different connection with your child. I'm not going to go into the merit of whether you FU or not but you will definitely FU if you don't make this right and talk to your husband. As a husband and father myself, I'd rather people tell me what a shitty husband I am than that I wasn't there for my kids.

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Synn0289 t1_j6ceryi wrote

From the sounds of it, I think her first story is right. She cheated and then turned the story around to get you back.

Question? How much do you do or bring to her life?

Also, do you know if this other guy is in a relationship that related to the events that happened a year ago. If so, reach out to his partner and inform them.

Either way, man. You should just cut bait and walk away from this situation. She sounds like drama. Also, learning self-respect at a young age is a powerful thing.

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DJ_Rand t1_j6ce5w3 wrote

Dated a girl once where our work shifts differed, she basically would leave for work about 4 hours before I would. She also didn't like to get much sleep herself. Though she'd take a nap when she got home from work while I was still at work. We'd then spend the rest of the day together, and I'd wake up and keep her company when she was getting ready for work, and then I'd try to get a couple more hours of sleep before I had to leave for work.

By the end of the week, I'd be so tired from not having regular sleep, that on my days off I would pass out for about 10 hours... this upset her greatly, and she'd go off on me and stay mad for a day or so. Because I was sleeping...

That was the single most annoying thing I've ever dealt with.

Some people just want a reason to be upset.

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YoggyYog t1_j6ce4jp wrote

Have you considered the possibility that they break up /because/ there is no solution other than the maternal unit taking on the responsibilities the paternal unit avoids. These issues matter, and they’re so prevalent, because there is a big problem with avoidance of responsibility in the household among men.

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