Don't think that's a question that really needs answering in this case to be honest.

Thank you. We are okay. I just needed to get it off my chest. Anyone who seriously thinks leaving a relationship just because of an issue arises just tells me that they haven’t been in a long term relationship.

We don’t have separate groceries. We separate our finances in which a lot of couples do.

Do yourself a favor and just call it quits brotha. I know it seems like the end of the world now but, trust me, there are much better women out there with much less drama. You're young and have plenty of time ahead of you to worry about women. Stack your paper and focus on yourself for a little while. You're young, enjoy it.

Arms wide!

>At times he has had to buy groceries and pay for my car payment and such when I don’t get my hours at work. He’s held that over my head many times

You raise a child together but have separate finances? Yeah no wonder it's causing tension between you. Why do you have separate groceries of all things?

The main problem I think is that it is not the first time that this occure.

Both of them seems to compete zbout who do the most for the kid.

It began with OP complaining about the father involvment in the begining, and him bein defensive.

As far as I know, that is a tecipe for à nasty break up brewing.

Lmao "MICROWAVE BAD"

Better dead than red

This is a terrible take.

Often people have been assaulted will call it "cheating," because they struggle to acknowledge the assault and blame themselves.

It's incredibly common.

Yeah my wife used to give me shit for being a therapist. I came home after another day of hearing humans treating each other like animals, had to call CPS on a parent, and found out the reason one of my clients hadn’t been to session was they had been arrested for (alleged) murder.

My wife was all like “how hard is it? You just sit there and listen to people”

Lemme tell you I sat her down and looked straight into her eyeballs and I said looks around for a little bit and checks behind the curtain “Biiiiiiiiitch”

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The loser deleted his post. What a jerk.

This whiny brat deleted his original post, but here it is for those curious: https://cheezburger.com/19155973/i-got-rid-of-my-boss-to-make-my-life-better-but-instead-made-it-worse-guy-has-epiphany-that-hes-a

Always have a trip sitter for hallucinogens

Loool

What is a "designer drug" ? Crack by prada? Is Victoria's secret a meth pipe? Does Louis Vuitton make dime bags now?

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I mean, their concern is not completely unwarranted.

Yes we know, a smart person googling their name and getting to your fic would easily figure out they are not related, but tbh the average person is not that smart. Plus, employers who look up peoples' names online won't go deep enough to clear any misunderstanding. They will just look at the first result and see it's something they consider inappropriate, and whoosh, there goes your interview. Especially if their name is so uncommon they have trouble to convice people it's just a coincidence.

Pretty sure you were the only one who thought it was a "joke"

>Before the trip I was a hyper-logical person. I was an atheist that didn't believe in greater powers or anything large and mysterious in the universe.

That's the best part of psychedelics, realizing that we don't know anything! I used to trip solo all the time, just for the hell of it, on a Tuesday or whatever. Seeing things stripped of pretense or in a completely different light was such a draw for me. There are major turning points in my life, good and bad, that revolve around specific trips. Hanging out with my brothers, you might here something dated, "is that before or after the double dipped orange gell tabs night?" Another favorite, "that's the summer we got Yowsered (reallys clean blotter that had Pitfall Harry stamped on the hits) at Allman Brothers Band" still puts a smile on my face, and that happened 25 years ago! Thanks for sharing your adventure. In case no one tells you, The secret knowledge is already in you, and you certainly know the answer to life's problems, even if you can't recall it most of the time. Be good to your fellow humans and to yourself.

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Thank you for decoding that, I was having trouble trying to figure it out.

I mean, tbf, most people don't make it to the end.