I respect your tldr opener. You are a modem Redditor

That’s not a FU at all, did the right thing

You did the right thing, in my opinion, you said what you had to, its out in the universe now and it just didn't work out. I believe it's called Unrequited love. The universe will come back around and you will find someone who genuinely will like you back. Good luck brother and be strong. I hope this helps.

You've got feelings and she apparently doesn't feel the same. Better to lay it out and lose than to drag on pretending you don't.

Kudos for taking your shot, sorry it didn't work out. Move on and who knows, maybe you'll find someone who feels the same as you or maybe she'll come around. Life is weird.

I don’t think your f up was going through the computer.

Likely not, OP stated this was their sophomore year and they were in a dorm, which is extremely unusual for RIT unless you're in one of the specialty groups.

Also, I'm struggling to remember any dorm at RIT with a prominent handrail outside and there isn't a prominent bridge except for the one by SAU which would be so quiet at night, nobody would know if you walked across it naked.

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I had an incredibly similar experience where I suspected I may have been drugged my first day of university, but also may have just been alcohol.

Blacked out drinking at my friend’s party. Woke up, girl under my arm saying ‘just take tops off, keep pants on’ black out again. Come to for 1 second in my bed taking pants off. Black out again. Vaguely remember walking into my neighbor’s room (open door policy), black out again. Vaguely remember running down the hallway screaming I need detox.

Wake up in the hospital, IV etc.

<people who watch porn for le sexy time>

<people who watch porn for the plot>

OP: I watch porn to preserve the history of music.

The resume bot might get confused.

Wow I am so sorry but also impressed.

So it's your job to pay for groceries?

I know a lot of couples that have completely separate finances, but not any with kids. Especially when one works more or earns more. I guess there's no reason it couldn't be done though.

But it's perfectly normal to want to hold things over his head when he's holding other things over yours.

OP should have invited him over to help with the process and a barbeque.

This isn't true in many countries at this time.

Men can get parental leave a lot of places, and, usually, the length of time that can be taken off for a new child (whether that child was birthed or adopted) can be split between either parent.

Yeah, it was, IIRC, the sixth result, so obviously that was a problem, unintentional though it was.

Eh, except he works from home at his desk in a comfy chair in his pajamas and only requires a few weeks of studying for new certifications versus my job which requires handling people who want to physically hurt others, has put others in the hospital and requires a masters degree and additional exams and certifications.

So, no, not always true.

His job isn’t more complicated at all. Lol. He works from home and I have watched and heard his job. I’m a behavior therapist who deals with multiple clients who literally want to hurt everyone around them. I currently have a coworker in the hospital due to one of my clients breaking her knee. Meanwhile my husband gets to sit at his desk and do his work that he also enjoys. Which is great. However I KNOW that my job is more demanding.

Yeah I was in a 5 yr relationship where I worked 12hr nights for most of that. Switched my sleep schedule to spend time with her every weekend. That was rough. I realized that she never once stayed up late to spend time with me. Felt a bit one sided.

I’m also a therapist.

Good to hear and yeah, its 99% of reddit. The old meme being "He frowned near you, divorce! Red Flag! Lawyer up!" You know what I mean. It's just over the top social media dummies screeching.

Was this tech school RIT?

Short for trousers if that helps you remember

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How long did it take to smoke them out?

It's possible the agent only found the one, and might have also found the other if this mistaken one hadn't existed, or perhaps they would have never found the other one.

I don't think it's OP's fault this person lost the book deal - porn is hardly a disqualifying topic in media, unless it was religious in nature or, like, children's books. The agent should be doing their due diligence, both to verify that this was an incorrect attribution, and that the other attribution exists and is correct. That they didn't do any of that tells me this was not something super important to the agent.