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[deleted] OP t1_j6hm5ev wrote

She stopped for a good reason. I mean you would be uncomfortable too if you are carrying 2 babies inside of you. She is not mad that I masturbated, she was mad that I didn't tell her about my sexual frustration and we always had an agreement that we will tell each other everything.

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OMGoblin t1_j6hjf6n wrote

It is your fault you are mad. You have expectations that someone else should be with you despite what they want. When your expectations aren't met, you shouldn't get angry. When you get angry you shouldn't expect anyone to sit there and validate you being angry with them. Its very childish to expect someone else to do what you want just because thats what you want, whether it's a relationship or otherwise

So, ultimately the situation is fair, it just doesn't feel good and for that I'm sorry and hope you find someone who actually lives close enough to see. Long distance or online relationships are always flimsy.

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johnackelley t1_j6hjecs wrote

OP is definitely in the wrong, but refusing to hear a problem unless it's accompanied by a solution is why so many businesses fail. Unless it's explicitly your job to come up with solutions for a given problem, you should not have to offer a solution. Whoever manages the aspect of the company with the problem should offer the solution.

Shutting down criticism is a fantastic way to never grow. This applies to people, business, and anything else with problems. Also, it seems that companies are never on the hook for offering solutions to their employees problems.

Poor performance? "Find a way to fix it or you're fired." Problem with the company? "Offer a solution or shut up." Funny how that works.

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Kayback2 t1_j6hfn1i wrote

Eh, it's not a FU.

It's a bit of a messy situation, but she was the one who stopped the sex, the ball's in her court.

Hurr hurr .

Sure an argument could be made for you looking at porn, but even not then.

You relieved a need, without pressuring her.

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Kayback2 t1_j6hez2o wrote

Eh, it's not a FU.

It's a bit of a messy situation, but she was the one who stopped the sex, the ball's in her court.

Hurr hurr .

Sure an argument could be made for you looking at porn, but even not then.

You relieved a need, without pressuring her.

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mojobox t1_j6heqtj wrote

Funny how you guy are never able to fathom that someone fully understanding the technology comes to the conclusion that it’s not the best thing since sliced bread.

If a government decides to adopt crypto technology it won’t be any of your existing beenz.

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