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mfiirk t1_j6hrton wrote

There’s a learning curve with some of the designs.

My wife tried one and had this issue. Had to have me get it out for her. Tried to convince her to let me use chopsticks but she adamantly refused lol.

She got a different one that has a finger loop to grab onto as opposed to the “finger dimples” for lack of a better term. And she loves it.

Would suggest this if you’re still wanting a different option.

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Not_A_Real_Bird t1_j6hr2np wrote

I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm happy the lady doc was able to help! I never had an issue with mine getting stuck but man did it give me hella cramps! I switched to the disc and it's so much easier to get out and doesn't cause cramping. If/when you want to try another menstrual product I recommend checking out the silicone disc.

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Zenth96 t1_j6hqymj wrote

Its actually interesting, i would like to hear the updates.

Here are my toughts: If i understood correctly, she basically lied to you, so maybe she got scared/worried of losing the platonic relationship she wanted. If she overthinks it by assuming you have an ulterior motive, your relationship is probably dead, she might decline the meeting in 2 days. There are people who can understand your toughts and feelings, if she is one of them shes gonna be cool with it. I hope everythings gonna be okay, but even if its not, dont be sorry. You meant what you said and she should be gratefull for having such a nice friend who cares about her, after all you are just giving her options and trying to make her happy.

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Madk81 t1_j6hpjm1 wrote

  1. Even badmouthing someone isnt enough to get that person fired. The manager was going out, OP just gave the last pieces of evidence needed to get rid of her.

  2. I read this post on a website, not on reddit, since it was deleted. But it sounded like OP was feeling guilty when he wrote the post. Sure, he should feel a bit guilty, but we weren't there so the reddit tribunal should calm down and give useful advice instead. Such as: dont beat yourself up, we all make mistakes.

  3. Contact the manager and apologize. You shouldnt have to carry this with you to the grave. Its never too late to make amends.

  4. Look for another job. 10 years in one place is way, way too long. Youre not growing professionally when you stay for so long. Hell, ask the manager if you can follow her into her new job, saying youl be the most faithful employee shel have from now on.

  5. Change jobs and burn the building. At least figuratively, if you dont want to end in prison. Bad workplaces deserve the worst they can get 🤬

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Waerok t1_j6hp3c0 wrote

Lol I've definitely done this. Was on a trip with fam and I was a bit underdressed than them because I thought we'd just be walking around DC anyway. Got hungry but all restaurants around us were booked -- until we found one with accommodation.

Unfortunately, our hunger got ahead of us and we didn't even bother to check the menu first. It was a fancy ass restaurant. An appetizer costs as much as a main dish at your typical $$ or even $$$ places. Not sure why we didn't leave when we could... maybe we felt bad since the servers were already giving us their best service, and we were already settled in at the middle-ish part of the restaurant.

I couldn't take off my winter jacket or else I'd look like an idiot with a graphic t-shirt with a huge image of ramen. My family was fine and their outfits fit in well despite being casual. I felt crappy the whole dinner, and we were out $250 while not even being full at the end.

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steelerschica86 t1_j6hp2io wrote

The first few times I used one I had a lot of trouble getting it out too-it’s part of the learning process, unfortunately. I wouldn’t let this discourage you. Also, it may be worth checking out different sized cups because some of them have a longer stem and are easier to grab if you have a higher cervix.

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Kayback2 t1_j6hoamh wrote

Ok that makes more sense.

Yeah I wasn't accusing her of stopping, it's understandable. My wife didn't, we were even using it to try induce labour on one of the time but someone wanting to stop when their body is a mass of hormones, growing aches and after even an easy delivery damage and healing, yeah it's understandable.

I was just saying she put the breaks on it, it's up to her to take them off. You mentioning your frustration could be seen as pressuring her to do something she's not ready to yet.

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Druss369 t1_j6ho5ja wrote

It was an honest mistake. Don't think you can mention him having an affair either because follow-up questions.

How did you see this evidence?etc.

Tough one!

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