Next time: Nazi blackface. Go balls out!

Thank you, it’s really nice and rare to find someone who can sympathize. It’s a really terrible dynamic when everyone KNOWS the behavior is not normal/acceptable, but you’re all much too tired to really fight them on it anymore. Most people don’t really believe me when I talk about my experiences with her, especially from when I was younger. I’m sorry you had to experience that, but again, I appreciate the empathy, and hope that your situation is either already improved or improves soon.

Uhhhh…can you leave a scathing review for that doctor on Yelp or something please?

I find them helpful, although I think they are doing more about the fluorescent lights than the computer, because I don’t need them at home.

Why didn't you just go and apologize and tell her what you were doing?

This was posted earlier today…

I think the best thing you can do is be honest and open about your feelings. Speaking personally, If I were this guy and I cared for you as much as it sounds like he does, I’d want to make sure we’re on the same page. Tell him how much you value your friendship and how despite the fact that you don’t really know how to sort your feelings out regarding this new development you definitely want to work things through.

The hardest part of talking about this kind of stuff is usually just starting to talk about it. I usually build it up in my head to be a great big scary thing, but it’s just a real conversation between two friends about their emotions. No matter what, you’ll be fine. You got this.

I am glad you're doing what you can to look after yourself! I had a aimilar situation with my older brother who we all had to walk on eggshells around and be ready to do whatever he wanted to keep him calm, and it isn't fair and it is really exhausting so I feel ya!

Back with more creative writing I see...

Yeah, I can understand why. Your friend was pretty harsh. Like you said, they’re stressed. I hope they realize that they overreacted and you didn’t really fuck up that hard.

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Your friend sounds like a douchebag 🤷🏻‍♂️

It would be unfortunate if it really happened- good thing it didn't.

Wtf? I mean, doggie style is fun but that's degrading and insulting.

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Wait, your friend is a competitive one so he pushes YOU to go faster? And just reaching out to increase your speed?

He should be the one feeling guilty and at least a bit apologetic lol

To say that you have to cover your face..errr your friend sounds like a bit of a dick lmao

Talk to him, then report back in 10 years after you’ve gotten married and had a few kids and are happy you married your best friend.

"Asthetically unpleasant" sounds like a real asshole . . . No dick is worth that level of degredation. . .

But the cool trendy companies who make them told me they do!

Menstrual.

If you only knew the half of it….

I guess I feel like the FU is me stupidly suggesting something that caused conflict that affected everyone. My role in the family is supposed to be sort of peacemaker/support, not agent of chaos lol

"working as intended" yeh... I mean it's totally failed as a currency, store of value, etc. Attempts in large scale to adopt it failed. It is technically hindered by a terrible transaction speed.

The goalposts just keep moving with people like you.

It’s just a big misunderstanding that the people who ethnically stereotyped a group are racist…