Recent comments in /f/tifu

Robinho311 t1_j6lic0m wrote

If what you're saying is true then you absolutely need the support of child protective services. Please don't think that any of this is your fault or that this is normal. It's not.

There are probably people in your area who can give you advice on how to get help. Either at your school (ask teachers who could be trustworthy) or figure out if there is some kind of place to go for victims of abuse. You shouldn't have to put up with this. Seriously.

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SadArm4678 t1_j6lhnld wrote

As someone who's never met someone that hasn't either told me about their dog, or a friend or family members dog, with my name that shit gets old. I mean, I get it. I don't get rude with anyone. But it is the exact reason I don't name my animals with people names.

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TommyTuttle t1_j6lh9nr wrote

Um… ok your best friend is a guy and you’ve just found out there’s sexual chemistry. Your next step is obvious, no? I mean, that’s the kind of thing that results in really good lasting marriages right there. I’m pretty sure the fact that you don’t know what to do next is the main reason he’s confused.

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Nashsonleathergoods t1_j6lgj1x wrote

Now is the time to have a real talk. There always needs to be a safe word. Even as simple as "red light". But she needs aftercare and to know that she can trust you. Go talk to her and you guys will be able to move pass this and be stronger for it.

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Darryl_Lict t1_j6lgeu6 wrote

I really hope you can leave once you reach 18. Have you thought about college or something like a nursing credential? I know that financial support is difficult to come by if you have a moderate income parent, but my god, you have to gain your independence. Do you live in low COL area where you could pay the rent with a low paying job? Around here, community college is pretty much free and has excellent certificate programs for things like welding, auto mechanics and nursing.

Good luck and hang in there.

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Chasethemac t1_j6lg760 wrote

You're just speaking so many opinions you've heard and projecting them onto me while emotionally shitting yourself over here.

Bitcoin, the network, has been running as intended for a decade.

What you don't like is human nature and technological progress. I'm sure in our short time as a civilization, we nailed it. The global monetary system couldn't possibly be improved.

The internet is just a fad.

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redbucket75 t1_j6lfxjb wrote

Time to sit down, well she can stand, and have that conversation about limits and safe words. This wasn't any issue of consent, just a bad sexual experience, and you'll both get through it if you want to stay together.

You should also talk about safe ways to initiate punishment sessions. Burning down the house or making actual poor life choices doesn't get sexy spanking, it gets boring discussions about grown up decision making.

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ComprehensiveWin8019 t1_j6lfwvm wrote

You severely messed up mate, to go that hard without talking about safe words is pretty bad. Especially since you normally don’t go that far. You should have talked to her first about how much pain or tools you’d use.

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